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You Never Have Any Idea

you never have any ideaSometimes I wish we could wear signs: “Broken heart,” “Diagnosed with cancer,” “Just lost job,” “Going through a mental illness episode.” Everyone has something going on. Trust me. Everyone has his or her own dose of shit to deal with – maybe not all at the same time, but shitfests, nonetheless.

Right now is my shitfest and I feel like a lot of my support system members are being selfish assholes (pardon the language). I have unfriended a couple people on Facebook simply because I am tired of their “me,me,me” crap. I DO understand needing time and space for yourself, but I also know that when your “best” friend is going through a meltdown, you put down your own shit and help them out. How many times have I done that? Too many to count.

My life is in complete upheaval and I have no idea what my future holds and all I want is for my friends and family to care.


You Never Have Any Idea

Elaina J. Martin

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Martin, E. (2016). You Never Have Any Idea. Psych Central. Retrieved on October 1, 2020, from


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