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Archives for November, 2010


Smart Kids and the SAT

I received this thoughtful response from to my last post about standardized tests and your child's self-esteem:
I'm 36 years old and I've been harboring bitterness about the PSAT since I was 17. We took it in 10th grade and I got a really high score. This made me feel like the bar was set pretty high. Well, when I took it again in 11th I bombed.
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The PSAT and Your Child’s Self-Esteem

Your eleventh-grader is about to receive an early holiday "gift": PSAT scores get sent home in early to mid-December.

For most kids, these scores (and other standardized test scores, such as the SSAT, ISEE, SAT, ACT, etc) hit hard, whether they're bad or good! And it's important to give kids the perspective and support they need to turn their results into personal empowerment, and not discouragement.
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Emotions and Feelings

Understanding the People You Love

My mother's birthday was today. She passed away 12 years ago (also in the month of November), and we were not speaking at the time of her death.

I've been doing a workshop series as part of my new project, Understanding the People You Love, and I've been opening my November sessions with this sad piece of information. I wish my relationship with my mother hadn't been so hurtful. I wish we had been close...
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