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ADHD

This Is ADHD Lazy

Nothing gets done

I've got this thing about eggs. I like them. I like them a lot.

Growing up on a farm may have had something to do with that. It was what used to be called a mixed farm, we raised beef and pork for profit, but we grew or raised a lot of things for personal consumption.

Among the things we had on our farm that provided sustenance for us were...


ADHD

I’m Feeling Old, Yet, Not

Wanna see my bike?

I'll tell you this for free, I'm feeling old.

I mean, I'm sixty now. More than half the population is younger than I am. It's been that way for a while now.

And then you add in that heart thing I just went through.

And then top that off with my finding out that having ADHD makes me and you more susceptible to heart disease and other things.
Well ... Hell!
And yet,...


ADHD

I Need To Do Something

Driven!

A doctor friend of mine mentioned recently that the thing he remembers most about the DSM definition of ADHD is the part that states the person with this disorder may run around in a hyper active state as if "driven by a motor."

He remembered that phrase specifically, and laughed when I asked if he'd noticed anyone in our group who was like that. I did not ask him to identify anyone specifically.

I'm...


ADHD

Please Restrain Me

Let's not get the wrong ideas now ...

That sounds a little risque, doesn't it?

Well, I'm not trying to be risque, but the truth is that that fits in, in a meta sort of way, with today's subject, impulsivity.

You see, the hyperactivity and impulsivity of ADHD are technically the result of poor, reduced, or non-existent  inhibition.

And like so many things, inhibition is both good and bad, depending on the person and the circumstance.
Inhibition...


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Forget What I Said Before

... and that's not good

What did I tell you? Well forget it.

Wait, don't forget all of it. Be selective. Lots of things I told you are still valid.

But here's something I've mentioned before that I've changed my mind on.
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I have, on maybe more than one occasion, said that if someone doesn't know they have ADHD and you're pretty sure they have it, it's none of your...


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Thanks A Lot ADHD

Unbreak my heart!

Recently I've been learning more and more about ADHD.

Did you know that Dr. Russel Barkley is saying it isn't an attention deficit disorder?

Quel supprise!

I've been saying that all along.

"We can now say that this is not an attention disorder. This is a problem with persistence toward the future."



But ...
I've been saying it's a problem with attention control, not with attention deficit.

Dr. Barkley is saying it is a ......


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Then I Opened My Mouth …

I should just keep my mouth shut, but ...

Sometimes I say the wrong thing.

Admittedly, I've gotten good at deleting what I've typed in on social media platforms like I even delete them before I publish them.

And, I've learned how to edit those status updates as well. Pretty good for an old guy, eh?

But in person it's not so easy.
Context is key
I often end up having to repaint the walls...


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A Different Way Of Thinking?

It's important ...

ADHD is a disorder, according to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual.

But what, exactly, is the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual?

"Well," you might say, "It's the reference work that defines all the disorders and mental health issues currently known."

To which I might well reply, "Pish tosh!"
What?
Sorry, didn't mean to be so harsh.

But the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual) is the current state of our understanding of what we believe are...


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Static And Distraction

I can't always tune in ...

You know as well as I do that sometimes we engage in things that we should be setting aside because there are more important things to do.

Remember as a child being unable to unplug from the TV or a game or even a book when we should have been getting ready for school or doing our chores or whatever?

We call that distraction, but we...


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Not Your Average Guy

My needle is shaking ...

I'm not what you might call normal, not average in any way.

Well, okay, I'm average height, I guess, and average weight.

And maybe average would be a good way to describe my looks, I'm not movie star material but I'm also not quite a gargoyle.

But I am not an average person in so many ways, and I've lived a life that isn't all that average as...