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  • October 22, 2018 at 12:08 am

    “People with ADHD make barriers bigger than they are, especially emotional ones.”
    So true. I could claim whittling as one of my hobbies, what with all the emotional barriers I’ve had to hack away at, cutting them down to a manageable size.

    If I were in your situation I would likely pretend (a powerful persuasion tool for me) that when it comes to water, I can choose which I want, use of the dock or use of the boat, but I can’t have both. (it doesn’t have to make sense!) Some hard core convincing myself those are my choices would make me see my good fortune in getting to “choose” the dock …

    One good thing despite our angst when having to make such a decision, once the decision is made and the deed is done, we’re pretty practiced at that “moving forward” stuff. Good luck to you with this one, hopefully you won’t torment yourself for too long.

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