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This Day Is Done


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It’s been a good, long time. And I’ve enjoyed every day of it.

You have ADHD? Me too.

I’m a writer, so my default is to write about it.

And so I have, right here at Psych Central, three times a week for nine years now.

And, I loved doing that.

It was important

I’m not just blowing my own trumpet here. I’ve had emails and comments and messages from people telling me they thought they were the only one until they read my posts.

That, is validating! And it isn’t just validating for my work or my writing ability.

The fact that there were others who felt what I felt and took the time to write to me in whatever way to tell me that, also did for me what I had done for them. I thought I was the only one for so many years.

When I was diagnosed …

I am not hiding from this. When I was first being assessed, the psychiatrist I was seeing was filling out a self reporting assessment form for me. He read off the item about finishing other peoples sentences and placed the pencil on the circle indicating the “All the time” selection and waited for me to confirm that.

I asked, “Have I been doing that?” and he replied, “Well, it is part of your disorder.”

Those words!

Those words, “your disorder” were the first official confirmation of my ADHD.

I immediately teared up. A fifty year old man, and I came close to sobbing. Seriously.

Since then, I imagine

This may be a bit pompous of me, but I’ve imagined others reading the words I write to describe what I live through, and upon recognizing their own lives in them, having a similar reaction.

I’m not living under the pretense that I’m some great writer or that I’m leading my people into the light.

I’ve honestly wished and hoped that these writings would help people. I’ve hoped they would find a starting place for their quest to figure out their lives.

But, all things that start

What goes up must come down, and all things that start must find their ending.

This post then, is the end of my ADHD Man Of DistrAction blog for 2020. It is quite likely the end of the blog for ever, there is no certainty and the new owners are not bothering to keep me informed as to any potential posting in the future.

So, should they reanimate this blog in 2021, I’ll see you all then. But if not, then this is goodbye.

I’ll still be around on social media, you could find me on twitter @writeofwaydotca or you can find me on Facebook and say hi if you like. You can even write to me at adhd_man@writeofway.ca and I’ll respond as soon as I check my mail. And I’d be happy to hear from you any time in any of those ways.

This Day Is Done


Kelly Babcock

I was born in the city of Toronto in 1959, but moved when I was in my fourth year of life. I was raised and educated in a rural setting, growing up in a manner I like to refer to as free range. I live on the traditional lands of the Chippewas of Nawash in an area where my family history stretches back 6 or 7 generations and my First Nations friend's families go back hundreds of generations. I was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 50 and have been both struggling with the new reality and using my discoveries to make my life better. I am a freelance writer and I write two blogs here at Psych Central, one about living with ADHD and one that is a daily positive affirmation that acts as an example of finding the good in as much of my life as I possibly can.

Find out more about me on my website: writeofway.

email me at ADHD Man


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Babcock, K. (2020). This Day Is Done. Psych Central. Retrieved on November 29, 2020, from https://blogs.psychcentral.com/adhd-man/2020/08/this-day-is-done/

 

Last updated: 31 Aug 2020
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