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Good-bye, and One Final Tip

Tuesday, June 1st, 2010

I lied. To myself. I thought I could keep up a constant and frequent posting rate here at this blog, and it turned out to be impossible. I wasn’t doing my real writing. So I’m taking this opportunity to wish my readers here farewell. To thank you for your generous comments.

And to offer one final bit of advice.

Two Ways NOT to Get Your Nonfiction Book Published

Wednesday, May 26th, 2010

I have two writing clients at the moment, both of whom are working on nonfiction books.  They both crave publication, and I believe they both have a good chance or I wouldn’t have taken them on or stuck with them this long.  Yet they may each be sabotaging themselves.  I’ll explain.

Lex (names and other minor details have been changed to protect my clients’ privacy) is writing a book about a way to increase high performance in any field.  Now that’s a popular self-help topic.  He’s got a pretty solid platform already. At least it looks good on paper. 

To Write? Play!

Friday, May 21st, 2010

Play is anything but pointless for the unloosing of creativity.  Some writers swear by its value.  According to romance novelist Phoebe Conn, “Writing is just fun for me, wonderful fun.  It isn’t like work, it’s never drudgery.”

And this is how novelist Phyllis Gebauer describes her thought processes before and after sitting down to write: “Yippee! Now I can work on my book, get out of here, ‘play’ with my people.”

Are You Afraid to Befriend Your Shadow?

Wednesday, May 19th, 2010
How fearful are you of your own fantasies?  Imagine doing anything you want. Anything!

For some people, especially women, it can be incredibly difficult to imagine breaking the normal boundaries of niceness.  In Getting Unstuck, a guide to unblocking your creativity, it’s suggested that you talk to your shadow side to learn what’s holding you back.

Are Depressed Poets Still Creative?

Sunday, May 16th, 2010

What happens to a writer’s creative output when he or she takes anti-depressants? It’s a myth that treatment harms creativity, according to numerous poets and other creative artists, as well as those who treat them.

Richard M. Berlin, M.D., is a psychiatrist whose book of poems, How JFK Killed My Father, won the Pearl Poetry Prize in 2002, and whose poetry appears monthly in Psychiatric Times

8 Kinds of Awful Writing Advice

Wednesday, May 12th, 2010

Every piece of writing advice you’ve been taught could be wrong – for you.

Always think of such rules as mere suggestions, knowing that the opposite of each one may be even more worthy.

When I interviewed 76 successful novelists and poets, I discovered how silly some of the usual instructions can be.  My advice, then, is that you seriously consider avoiding the following 8 types of advice:

How to Live a Writer's Life

Saturday, May 8th, 2010

Sooner or later, all real writers somehow find their own way to create a writer’s life.  Changing circumstances and different priorities will always have to be adapted to.  Still, if writing is your passion and you want it to be more than a mere hobby or subset of your life, it’s useful to reflect on the thoughts of those who have gone before.

In this post and others to come, I’ll share both practical and more philosophical ideas on the subject of making writing your life (though certainly not all of your life).

Worrying Is Bad, Productive Obsessing Is Good

Monday, May 3rd, 2010

We usually think of obsessions as negative. A lot of obsessing comes with pain, overwhelming frustration, and a sense that there’s nothing you can do about the source of your obsession.  There’s another kind of obsession, though, and those more productive obsessions are what we learn about in Brainstorm: Harnessing the Power of Productive Obsessions by psychotherapist and creativity coach Eric Maisel, Ph.D., and Ann Maisel.

Writers and other artists are often desperate for fresh inspiration and renewed motivation.  By learning concrete ways to tap into the brain’s potential, Maisel’s readers can better move forward in whatever realm they care most passionately about.  What the Maisels are talking about here is another way to look at flow, or focus, or deep engagement, or mindfulness.  Even if they’re not all defined as precisely the same experience, there’s no particular need to pull apart the threads of difference.  They’re all extremely positive states of mind, ones that creative people often crave and benefit from.

Two Kinds of Writers: To Outline or Not

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

A friend of mine told her then-husband that she was finally going to start her novel.  He folded his arms, scowled and asked with palpable cynicism and disgust, “Do you have an outline?”

“Geeze, no,” she replied, “but Stephen King says in his book that outlines are completely unnecessary–just start writing.” According to my friend, that temporarily took the wind out of her ex’s know-it-all sails.

What, then, is the truth about outlines?  Do they serve a purpose or are they only dreary reminders of long-ago school days when we had to outline material we didn’t care about?

Why Should I Sit Down? Writers on the Move

Sunday, April 18th, 2010

If you were to do an efficiency analysis of my movements during a typical at-home writing day, you’d end up with a surprising criss-crossing maze.  Not enough walking to use very many calories, but enough to show my typical style is not to sit and write steadily. 

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