Body Image Booster: Count Your Wishes
Every Monday features a tip, activity, inspiring quote or some other tidbit that helps boost your body image, whether directly or indirectly — and hopefully kick-starts the week on a positive note!
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How often do you ask yourself what you want or what you wish?
I loved this post from Susannah Conway on wishes, which she wrote on 12.12.12 or “wishing day.” Even though it’s almost a week later, I love the idea of wishing on a regular basis.
This reminds us of our needs, wants and goals. It reminds us to check in with ourselves. And to explore whether we’re on the right path (for us).
I wish for a weekend of reading books. I wish for security. I wish for continued good health for my family. I wish for the perfect pair of jeans. I wish for a never-ending supply of instant film. I wish for a lover who’s brave, knows how to cook and wants to explore the world with me. I wish for silence. I wish for time to write my new book. I wish for a month in New York City. I wish for passionate kisses every single day. I wish for deepening friendships. I wish for upgraded hormones. I wish for forever cuddles with my nephew. I wish for a gingerbread latte. I wish for my own line of journals. I wish for soul trust. I wish for more London adventures. I wish for sunny days. I wish for a detached house in the countryside. I wish for free broadband. I wish for clarity. I wish for a full-time assistant. I wish for morning optimism. I wish for an ever-expanding heart.
I wish for love.
What if you carved out a few minutes to brainstorm your wishes? To write them down somewhere visible, somewhere sacred. What if you then carved out a few minutes each week to check in with those wishes — and with yourself?
These are my wishes:
I wish for a cozy home that I can live in for years and years, which houses tons of books, art and a few little ones. I wish for great health, happiness and loads of love for my loved ones. I wish for days with laughter and bike rides with my boyfriend. I wish for travels abroad. I wish for self-trust. I wish for greater confidence in who I am. I wish for more sleep. I wish for the ability to be still, not having to continuously be in motion, mind and body.
I wish for a book of my own. (I wish to get good enough to write said book of my own.) I wish for the same carefree feelings I felt dancing in a field of daisies in the outskirts of Moscow in the summer of 2001. I wish for more cooking, posts on my personal blog and epiphanies in between reading books. I wish for whimsy and magic.
What do you wish for? Please share in the comments. I’d love to know.
Tartakovsky, M. (2014). Body Image Booster: Count Your Wishes. Psych Central. Retrieved on December 1, 2015, from http://blogs.psychcentral.com/weightless/2012/12/body-image-booster-count-your-wishes/