Every Monday features a tip, activity, inspiring quote or some other tidbit that helps boost your body image, whether directly or indirectly — and hopefully kick-starts the week on a positive note!
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“It is so easy to get bogged down by our internal patterns of negative thinking. Those circuitries are so engrained. But shifting the focus to gratitude and connection helps remind me that, ‘Hey, the mirror really has no hold over the reality of my contentment.’”
These are the wise words that Julia, who blogs at Feed Me Daily, emailed me recently. She reminded me of the importance of staying connected with our loved ones, with the world. Because when we focus on thinness, on restricting our calories, on nitpicking at our bodies (and others), we forget.
Staying connected brings us back to earth. It reminds us to remember and to focus on what’s really meaningful in our lives: people who support us and make us laugh; activities that fulfill us and build us up instead of tearing us down. (For instance, dieting is a good way to tear yourself down.)
When we’re knee-deep in negativity, again, it’s easy to forget about the truly meaningful things in our lives, of what really makes us happy. Visual reminders are a great way to help us remember.
For instance, Julia created a collage with photos of her friends and put it up on her bathroom mirror. (Don’t you love that?) This way every time she looks in the mirror — when possible insecurities can come out — she gets an instant reminder of what’s important in her life. (And I bet those friends don’t care at all about her appearance either.)
Here are a few other ideas of visual symbols to use and ways to stay connected:
Staying connected to the world reminds us of what’s genuinely vital in our lives, and helps us put things into perspective. It also ensures that we don’t isolate ourselves, because that’s when the inner critic can be especially loud and vicious. And it means we can be there for others, too.
How do you stay connected? How will you remind yourself of your connection?
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