Body Image Booster: Giving Yourself Permission
Every Monday features a tip, activity, inspiring quote or some other tidbit that helps boost your body image, whether directly or indirectly — and hopefully kick-starts the week on a positive note!
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Last week I interviewed Anna Guest-Jelley of Curvy Yoga about practicing yoga, being kinder to ourselves and her must-read e-book Permission to Curve: Inspiring Poses for Curvy Yogis and Their Teachers. (Here’s parts 1, 2 and 3.)
Today, I give myself permission to step light-heartedly into the life of my own imagining.
I give myself permission to lovingly accept and relinquish my claim on all those moments of hurt that tether my heart to that which no longer serves me.
I give myself permission to stand, head up, shoulders back in front of you.
I give myself permission to speak my truths, and to allow them to be heard, audibly, by others.
Both Mara and Anna’s words got me thinking about all the things we deny ourselves because we — or others — deem our bodies unworthy.
For instance, maybe you avoid yoga, because you think you’re the wrong size to practice. Maybe you don’t buy new clothes because you’re waiting to lose weight (and don’t think you deserve to feel good). Or maybe you let others treat you like crap.
But we don’t need to earn our worthiness. It’s already there. Inside of us.
“It’s never been true, not anywhere at any time, that the value of a soul, of a human spirit, is dependent on a number on a scale.”
So consider one or several things you will give yourself permission for starting right now. What might feed your soul, your spirit, your body, your mind?
Here are some ideas:
- I give myself permission to enjoy eating and savor my food.
- I give myself permission to know that I’m enough and to act that way.
- I give myself permission to relinquish the guilty feelings over eating.
- I give myself permission to honor my body at every size.
- I give myself permission to love my body — like I love my family and friends, without any conditions.
- I give myself permission to ditch dieting.
- I give myself permission to listen to my body.
If these ideas seem too big right now, just break them down. What can you give yourself permission to do today? What’s one small step you can take?
Maybe that’s to have a few minutes to yourself to meditate or write in your journal. Maybe that’s to eat and savor a favorite meal. Maybe that’s to move your body by doing an activity you actually enjoy. Maybe that’s to simply say, “Thanks, body.”
What will you give yourself permission for?
P.S., Don’t forget that you have ’til Tuesday at 11 p.m. EST to enter to win a copy of Anna’s e-book. Learn more, and comment here.
Tartakovsky, M. (2014). Body Image Booster: Giving Yourself Permission. Psych Central. Retrieved on August 29, 2015, from http://blogs.psychcentral.com/weightless/2012/07/body-image-booster-giving-yourself-permission/