Psych Central


{image credit}

Mondays can be rough for many of us, and this doesn’t create the ideal environment for building a better body image. To help you turn that around, every Monday features a tip, activity, inspiring quote or some other tidbit to help boost your body image – and kick-start the week on a positive note.

Got a tip for improving body image? Email me at mtartakovsky at gmail dot com, and I’ll be happy to feature it. I’d love to hear from you!

It’s been a while since we evaluated the state of our body image. I think it’s important to check in with ourselves from time to time to see how we’re doing. To consider what really impacts our body image. To consider what contributes positively – or negatively – to our body image.

Gretchen Rubin of The Happiness Project features a variety of interviews on happiness on her blog.

She usually asks the same six questions, which I think are very relevant to body image – if you switch out “body image” for “happiness.”

These questions are a great way of assessing your body image now and throughout the years.

  1. What’s a simple activity that consistently contributes to your positive body image?
  2. What’s something you know now about body image that you didn’t know when you were 18 years old?
  3. Is there anything you find yourself doing repeatedly that gets in the way of your body image?
  4. Is there a body image mantra or motto (or any kind really) that you’ve found very helpful? (Gretchen uses the motto “Be Gretchen.”)
  5. Have you always felt about the same level of body image, or have you been through a period when you felt exceptionally better about your body and yourself as a whole  – if so, why? If you were unhappy with your body or yourself, how did you become happier?
  6. Have you ever been surprised that something you expected would make you feel better about yourself, didn’t – or vice versa?

Here are my replies, which might spark some ideas for you.

  1. Getting connected to my body is a biggie for me. That means practicing Pilates or yoga. When I do either of these, I feel more in tune with my body. I can feel its power and beauty.
  2. That being thin isn’t magical and it’s more important – and satisfying – to turn my attention inward.
  3. For me, this doesn’t really apply to my body image but more my self-image. I find that I do a lot of comparing and become insecure in my abilities very easily.
  4. You are enough just as you are. Or everyone is unique, don’t try to emulate others.
  5. This is the healthiest my body image has ever, ever been. My positive body image was a combination of factors: letting go of the diet mentality and practicing intuitive eating, finding physical activities that nourish and challenge me and make me feel alive, and truly realizing that life doesn’t happen 10 pounds from now.
  6. Absolutely! I thought being thin would change my life. It didn’t. It just made me more obsessive about my weight. It created this tunnel vision, and I didn’t focus on exploring the important things in life – interests, values and friendships. I also didn’t realize just how liberating it is to be happy in your own skin.

You can check out Gretchen’s happiness interviews here.

How would you answer the above questions? Please share some of your answers in the comments!

P.S., Don’t forget to send me your links or paragraphs on creativity! The deadline is tonight, so I can include it in the round-up post tomorrow. Thanks!

 


Comments


View Comments / Leave a Comment

This post currently has 12 comments.
You can read the comments or leave your own thoughts.






    Last reviewed: 24 Jan 2011

APA Reference
Tartakovsky, M. (2011). Essential Body Image Questions To Ask Yourself. Psych Central. Retrieved on April 23, 2014, from http://blogs.psychcentral.com/weightless/2011/01/essential-body-image-questions-to-ask-yourself/

 

Weightless


Archives



Subscribe to this Blog:
Feed


Or Get a Single, Daily Email (enter email address):

via FeedBurner



More



 

Subscribe to this Blog:
Feed


Or Get a Single, Daily Email (enter email address):

via FeedBurner



Recent Comments
  • Margarita Tartakovsky, MS: @ AntNene, you’re so welcome! :) I’m glad you liked them. Thank you for your...
  • AntNene: I love this post. Thank you so much for these ideas!
  • Josefina: the line about giving myself a smile…felt good I felt truly absorbed thanks, I needed this now
  • Margarita Tartakovsky, MS: @ Elizabeth, thank you! :)
  • elizabeth: Margarita, a lovely, lovely reminder to allow compassion for our own body as it moves through whatever...
Subscribe to Our Weekly Newsletter

Find a Therapist
Enter ZIP or postal code



Users Online: 12240
Join Us Now!