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	<description>A blog about psychotherapy and therapy, by Sonia Neale.</description>
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		<title>Borderline Personality Disorder:  Terminations, Funerals, Ceremonies and Party Harty</title>
		<description><![CDATA[When therapy is over and you are healed to the best of your ability, is it time to mourn or celebrate the end of the therapeutic relationship?]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2012/02/borderline-personality-disorder-terminations-funerals-ceremonies-and-party-harty/</link>
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		<title>Borderline Personality Disorder:  Final Email to My Therapist</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Dear XXXXX, I thought it was safe to let you know how I was doing. I thought it was safe to email you about what my thoughts were regarding brief psychosis –v- depression (which is something I have finally made sense of and wanted your opinion on because I trusted you). I told you what [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2012/02/borderline-personality-disorder-final-email-to-my-therapist/</link>
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		<title>Borderline Personality Disorder:  Getting Fired From Many Jobs</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Over the years, I’ve been fired, resigned or walked out (before I was pushed) on more jobs than there are symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder.  I never understood why this was happening to me and I always thought it was the company’s fault, the other employees fault or that the Universe hated me. There was [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2011/12/borderline-personality-disorder-getting-fired-from-many-jobs/</link>
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		<title>Borderline Personality Disorder:  Erotic Transference</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Ahh, the Erotic Transference!  The question is do we want to have sex with our therapist because of a deep-seated oedipal complex, primary attachment gone tragically awry, a pre-verbal object relationship that cannot be unified or do we simply want to shag an attractive, empathic person who sets our genitals on fire? Much psychological literature [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2011/12/borderline-personality-disorder-erotic-transference/</link>
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		<title>Borderline Personality Disorder:  The Freedom of Boundaries</title>
		<description><![CDATA[&#160; My life started to give me much needed and valuable freedom of choice when I finally put major emotional, cognitive, behavioural and physical boundaries in place. Previous to that I was forever delving into people’s private lives, hemorrhaging at emotional paper cuts, having concrete, rigid and inflexible ideas on everything and having anger management [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2011/11/borderline-personality-disorder-the-freedom-of-boundaries/</link>
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		<title>Borderline Personality Disorder:  What&#8217;s Love Got to Do With it?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[At what point in therapy should an experienced therapist tell a long-term client with a Borderline Personality Disorder diagnosis, in an unsolicited manner, that they love them? This is what my therapist said at the last session I had with her.  I do love you. It was a major catalyst, amongst other things, for my [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2011/11/borderline-personality-disorder-whats-love-got-to-do-with-it/</link>
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		<title>Borderline Personality Disorder:  Living with Fear and Uncertainty</title>
		<description><![CDATA[&#160; When I listen to the eerie, haunting music of Sigur Ros, an Icelandic band, it takes me to a place of yearning, grief and loss and longing that I cannot identify and don’t understand. This is what my children would call Mum’s sad, weird, drunk music.  I used to listen to it in 2004 [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2011/11/borderline-personality-disorder-living-with-fear-and-uncertainty/</link>
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		<title>Borderline Personality Disorder, David Cassidy and Letting Go</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Ten years ago, I went to a David Cassidy concert in Perth and pressed myself up against the stage for him to come down and hold my hand, which he did.  But apparently I held on for so long he had to scream in my face, “LET GO!” That was the best advice I have [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2011/11/borderline-personality-disorder-david-cassidy-and-letting-go/</link>
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		<title>Borderline Personality Disorder:  Guilt, Shame and Disgust</title>
		<description><![CDATA[It occurred to me the other day that I had not thought about myself in terms of excessive guilt, shame and disgust for many months.  This coincided around about the time I started my new job working with self-actualised people in the mental health field and making long overdue decisions about what sort of people [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2011/10/borderline-personality-disorder-guilt-shame-and-disgust/</link>
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		<title>Mental Health Day:  Borderline Personality Disorder:  Email and Text Addiction with your Therapist</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Emailing and texting your therapist can be (for some) more addictive than cigarettes, alcohol and drugs.  The reward neurotransmitter dopamine floods your brain and motivates you to do more of the same. This is the same neurotransmitter secreted when you snort cocaine.  Even a simple email exchange can do this for some.  It’s not what [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2011/10/mental-health-day-borderline-personality-disorder-email-and-text-addiction-with-your-therapist/</link>
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