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Can An Angry Teacher Teach You About Anger?

An Angry Teacher?

Who are your mentors, teachers, role models? Whom do you admire? Respect? Learn from?

Can they control their anger?

Imagine: You're sitting in a college classroom, taking a course on the philosophy of relationships. Your professor, a tenured, well-respected man, gives a brilliant lecture on the nobility of friendship. He speaks about forbearance, equanimity, tolerance and seeing the good in others.

You have a question about the assignment, but
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Use Joy To Treat Depression, Anxiety, Addiction

To find joy is the hardest thing of all. It is harder than all other spiritual tasks…Put all your energy into being happy. — Rebbe Nachman of Breslov

People struggling with depression, anxiety, and other mental illnesses benefit from making joy a part of their mental health treatment plan.

Joy's Power

Joy's Dark Opposites: Joy is the opposite of nearly every draining emotion and feeling: Despair. Anger. Depression. Jealousy. Hate. You can't merely implant joy on top of negative emotions and feelings, but you can engage in joyful activities which are important to the healing process.
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Enlightenment–Thinking About Attachment

Enlightenment: the action or state of attaining or having attained spiritual knowledge or insight, so says the dictionary.

Non-Attachment Enlightenment

The concept of enlightenment today sometimes reflects the view that an awareness which frees a person from the cycle of rebirth, enlightenment is largely about non-attachment.

Attachment is prison, meditation and nothingness are the key to enlightenment.

Non-attachment is the highest state of being and total enlightenment.

Letting go is the way to go.

Practice enlightened mindfulness, not attachment.

And the famous:...
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Why Starting Over Is Good For The Soul

If you believe you're essentially like a hippo, starfish, pug, or sheep (or any other animal), then read no further.

If you believe you are a unique, divinely-created soul, and that your soul and body are carefully-chosen mates; if you believe that your life circumstances are designed specifically with you in mind, to help you achieve a purpose or mission in this lifetime; then you probably already know: YOU CAN START OVER.
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Do You Have To Tell Your Therapist In Person That You’re Leaving?

Dedicated, skilled, and caring therapists will, together with you, discuss the right time to end therapy. Usually they'll discuss it with you in the first few sessions so you can be prepared for about how long therapy might take. They'll share with you possible treatment time-frames, and together you'll decide how to proceed.

Your therapist and you will schedule regular progress check-ins, every few sessions or even once per session, and assess how effective the therapy is for you. If it isn't after a reasonable period of time, a responsive therapist will try other approaches with you or might even suggest a different therapist.

But suppose that you decide your therapist isn't for you and you are planning to leave therapy, either to work with someone else or because you feel you no longer need therapy—what should your course of action be?
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