They appear every year – those lists of “top cities for singles.” I keep waiting for one that is not a parody of itself, but sadly, the most recent was one of the worst of the bunch.

The latest list is from Bloomberg News. Unlike most “top” lists that base their picks on numerous criteria, Bloomberg gets right down to just two: (1) percent of the men and women of that city who live alone; and (2) percent by which the median income exceeds the national average.

These are not necessarily bad criteria. I’m single at heart, and I can see the advantages of both. In a city where lots of people live alone, there may be lots of single people interested in friendship. There may be lots of cultural activities, sports, and other events that do not cater to married couples or to two-parent families with little kids. These cities could be places where single people feel welcome to live single, without a lot of pressure to couple up.

A higher than average income level might mean that these cities are places with good jobs. That could be appealing to plenty of single people who love their single lives.

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Looking for Singlism? Try Lists of Top Cities for Singles

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  1. Hoboken?

    I have to say, even setting aside the various New Jersey stereotypes (gangsters, waste dumps, Snooki, etc.) it’s hard to see how Hoboken could be a top city for singles regardless of criteria.

    I think we should come up with our own list of top cities for singles. I’d nominate Madison, WI as a city. Lots to do, not too big, has a major university, and toleration of a wide variety of lifestyles.

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