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#194: Boys and Men and Sexuality: Part One

Once again I am proposing that male and female differences in anatomy predetermine how men and women experience sexuality. Men’s anatomy is external, visible and penetrating while women’s is internal, invisible and receptive. Sexuality for boys and men can be as the poet says, “A thing apart.” (Lord Byron’s Don Juan, Canto 1; Stanza 194.) Men can, on occasion, “think” with their sexual organ so that it has a life of...
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Children and Teenagers

#191: Girls and Women and Sexuality-Part Two

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Males and females have different experiences about their sexuality from the beginning of life—differences that are based in their dissimilar anatomy. These distinctions in no way mean that they should be treated unequally but it does mean that they will have divergent experiences.

Even as we blur the gender boundaries in this day and age there are still differences between the sexes because male and female...
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Children and Teenagers

#189: Sexuality: A Different Perspective

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How can we think differently about sexuality? How can we protect our children? Who should teach them--parents, the schools, the Internet? Do we really live in a “rape culture?” How do we impart to young men the desire to be respectful of young women? How do we enable young women to protect themselves?
I think these are all valid questions that...
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Children and Teenagers

#188 Lady Gaga: Making it Real


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Thank you, Lady Gaga, Vice-president Joe Biden and the survivors of sexual assault who graced the stage at the 2016 Academy Awards Ceremony. Lady Gaga’s impassioned rendition of the song “Til It Happens to You” from The Hunting Ground was the highlight of the evening in my opinion. The artist conveyed the anguish and anger experienced by victims of sexual assault through her voice and...
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