Archives for January, 2013


12-Steps to Creating Motivation When Depressed

Creating motivation when feeling depressed can be one of the most difficult things a person can do. An episode of depression can be physically and emotionally draining. The simplest of tasks seem to take maximum effort, and sometimes even beyond maximum. Some may feel lethargic. It may be tough make meals, or clean up at home, or take showers, or even get out of bed.

Navigating motivation when depressed can be tough because the instinct is to wait for the energy to return. People who are depressed often fall into the trap of trying to wait it out -- that if you give in to the urge to stay in bed for a few days, that you'll be re-energized and recharged, believing you'll have exorcised the depression demons by just "going with it".

Unfortunately, it's not usually as simple as this. If everybody tried to wait out their depressive episodes, some people would be in bed for 20 years, realizing somewhere along the way that depression actually tends to breed depression if it's not actively confronted. That's right, catering to our depressive urges actually reinforces them.

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Stress and Anxiety: The Double-Edged Sword Known as ‘The Internet’

It's incredible how much access we have right in the palm of our hands today. The options are almost endless. However, along with the pros of this, there are also cons. Our computers and smartphones haven't only brought us endless avenues of being constantly in touch with our friends and families, and having shopping, music, games, and much more right in the palm of our hands. Unfortunately, this type of access can also contribute to increased anxiety and mental stress.

I hear many people talk about how much "the world has changed" over the past ten years, or so. But I'll raise a question, just for consideration: Has the world really changed, or has our awareness, perspective, and access to the world changed?

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Relationship Therapy

The Relationship Dream List

Is your relationship feeling stagnant recently? Do you feel like you're caught in a routine, ignoring each other, too busy to give time to your relationship, or just simply neglecting your relationship?

It can be easy to become complacent in our relationships, especially when living together on a daily basis. Life happens around us --we work, possibly have children to care for, keep up a home, try to see friends and family, deal with issues that come up, and so on. Things end up getting pushed to the front in our lives, while our relationships with our significant others are pushed to the back.

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