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What Learning To Drum Taught Me About Anxiety (Part 1)In kindergarten, I played the woodblock.

Yeah, the woodblock. And I was such a badass about it, too. By the end of the year, I was ready for some stage time. (The other kids at our kindergarten graduation got kazoos or something. Lousy, whining kazoos.)

But I got a motherloving woodblock, people! And I was proud.

A small wooden mallet in my right hand and a — well, a hollow block of wood — in my left, and there I stood wearing my construction-paper graduation cap, ready to keep time to songs like “Fifty Nifty United States”.

And kept time I did with my toothy grin and crimped hair.

BOOM BOOM BOOM

I grew up rather fond of tapping out beats on tabletops with pens, but that’s about where my percussion experience ended. Yeah, I took piano lessons here and there, spent a year with a clarinet and a horribly cranky band instructor in 5th grade, and I sang in choir from middle school up through the end of college — but that’s it. Nothing with drums.

Drums have always fascinated me. Well, let me reword that — drum beats have always fascinated me. No, no wait — that’s not it either.

Drummers.

No.

A drummer’s ability to drum.

Yeah, that’s it.

A drummer’s ability to drum has always fascinated me. So many beats. So many limbs. When I tapped on the table with Sharpies, I couldn’t think of throwing my feet into the mix. When I tap my left foot along with music in the car, I can maybe keep a beat on the steering wheel with my palm.

Growing up, I had only a few opportunities to sit in front of a real drum kit. And each of those opportunities began with excitement (“Yay, drums!”) and ended with regret (“Stupid drums!”).

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The drums weren’t stupid, though. It was me. No matter how hard I tried to tell my brain to make my right hand tap the high hat, my left hand would tap the snare.

Frustrated, I gave up easily every time.

But now, I own a house. And now, I have a husband. And in this house — in the basement — sits my husband’s drum kit.

Now, he doesn’t play professionally or anything — he just enjoys playing around with them. He was a very musical kid growing up (guitar, bass, drums) and played with a few bands here and there in high school, including one that marched around during halftime at football games. (Sorry, Jason. Had to mention it. I wish I’d known you then so I could see you in that silly hat.)

So anyway.

We have this drum kit in the basement now, and just for fun, I sat down. And I tried to play.

(Drumroll, please — [groan, I know] — part 2 is coming up next.)

Photo: MTSOfan (Flickr)

 







    Last reviewed: 23 Sep 2013

APA Reference
Beretsky, S. (2013). What Learning To Drum Taught Me About Anxiety (Part 1). Psych Central. Retrieved on April 23, 2014, from http://blogs.psychcentral.com/panic/2013/09/what-learning-to-drum-taught-me-about-anxiety-part-1/

 

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