Mindful Eating: Open Your Mind Before You Open Your Mouth Articles

Reflective Eating

Sunday, May 12th, 2013

lightbulbLondoner and stuntman Terry Cole holds over 150 Guinness World Records. He also eats glass. “Well,” he told a journalist in an interview, “I eat light bulbs. I mean, I eat glass, not on a regular basis at all. But if the work comes in, then I’ll do it.” (1). Well then, I’m relieved. I’m glad that Terry eats glass not every day, but only when the work comes in. Eating glass—and eating in general—is work. Not as much for the jaws (Terry pregrinds the glass) or for the stomach (which in Terry’s case must be made of iron), but for the mind. I dig people like Terry—not because they eat glass, but because it takes a lot of mind to pull off something like that. Mindful eating is sort of the same: It’s like eating mirrors. Mindful eating is reflective eating that shows you you. So have a mirror sandwich for breakfast. See yourself eating.  Have a taste of your essential self.  Break the fast of unawareness.

Adapted from Reinventing the Meal (Somov, 2012)

Related: Lotus Effect (Somov, 2011)

ref: (1) Lawrie, 1998, p. 243

Light bulb image available from Shutterstock.

Ponder Your Journey, Living Matter

Saturday, April 27th, 2013

The Celtic classic Book of Taliesin includes a poem purportedly by the sixth-century bard Taliesin, telling the story of his past lives:

The second time I was created, I was a blue salmon. I was a dog, I was a stag; I was a roe-buck on the mountain side, I was a treasure chest, I was a spade; I was a hand-held drinking horn; I was a pair of fire-tongs for a year and a day; I was a speckled white cock among the hens of Eiden, I was a stallion standing at stud; I was a fierce bull; I was grain growing on the hillside… The hen, my enemy, red-clawed and crested, swallowed me. For nine nights I was a little creature in her womb; I was ripened there. I was beer before I was a prince. I was dead, I was alive.

In a way, isn’t this the story of all of our yesterdays and tomorrows? Yesterday you were an eater of food. Today—if it all works out—you will hopefully still be an eater of food. But one of these tomorrows, you will be food yourself. Ponder your journey, living matter.

Adapted from Reinventing the Meal (Somov, 2012)

Become an “Om”nivore (or an Aumnivore)

Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

O3m_AryaSamajWhether you are a meat eater, a vegetarian, or a vegan, put some om into your eating. Pay a moment of tribute to the life you consume.  Devote a moment of thought to recognition, perhaps “This isn’t just food; this used to be alive” or, as in the case of “live” foods, “This is still alive. I am not just eating food; I am consuming life.”  Try thinking of yourself not just in terms of what you eat, but in terms of how you eat. Move beyond the savoring type of mindfulness to mindfulness of the life that you consume. Say a namaste to the potato in your bowl. Let the life in you recognize the life in the food that you eat.  Become an “Om”nivore.

Or an Aumnivore (“Aum” is the more phonetically accurate spelling of the “om” syllable).  Put differently: become a compassionate eater who is acutely mindful of the fact that the “food” you consume isn’t just food but life itself; an eater who compassionately identifies with what he/she eats.

[This latter spelling ("aumnivore") can help us distinguish between omnivores (in the traditional sense of the word) and aumnivores (the conscious eaters that transitioned from the preoccupation with what they eat to a stance of compassionate consumption regardless of what they eat).]

Adapted from Reinventing the Meal (P. Somov, New Harbinger Publications, 2012)

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Santhara & Eating Experiments With Truth

Monday, April 22nd, 2013

A man is not virtuous because he doesn’t eat meat, nor is he any less virtuous because he does.

Jiddu Krishnamurti, Commentaries on Living

I must reduce myself to zero. So long as man does not of his own free will put himself last among his fellow creatures, there is no salvation for him. Ahimsa is the farthest limit of humility.

Gandhi, Autobiography: My Experiments With Truth

Among his many notable political accomplishments, Gandhi was known for using fasting as a form of political protest. The idea of protest through fasting harkens back to the Jain tradition of santhara, a voluntary ritual of fasting until one’s death. The vow of santhara is distinguished from suicide in that fasting until one’s death is not an escape from distress but an open-ended end-of-life meditation and, in Jainism, a purging of negative karma.

With all due respect to both Gandhi and the venerable tradition of Jainism, I see a glaring inconsistency between fasting and the principles of ahimsa (non-violence).  You are a living microcosm, a home to innumerable microscopic creatures—bacteria, fungi, parasites, and more, let alone your own cells. Indeed, each and every one of your cells has its own appetite, its own metabolism—and therefore its own existential agenda. All of this collective microbial and cellular existence depends on you. All of these innocent microscopic and cellular lives within your body will go down with you if you decide to cut off your own supply of nourishment.  Thus, a decision to starve is a decision to kill.

Life, metabolically, is a zero-sum game.  To eat is to kill (whether you are a vegan or an omnivore).  And not to eat is to kill. Thus, we cannot avoid violence; we can only minimize it. The bottom line is that we actually cannot reduce ourselves to zeros, as Gandhi encourages us, even if we try. The very decision to reduce oneself to a metabolic zero (say, through starvation) instantly and unilaterally overrides the existential aspirations of legions of microscopic lives that depend on us for sustenance. Absolute nonviolence is a …

The Pungency of Eating Ethics

Sunday, April 21st, 2013

garliccrpdA while back, while peeling a head of garlic I noticed that the cloves had begun to sprout. Tiny green shoots were poking out of their white husks. I broke off several cloves and stuck them into a pot of soil. A couple of days later, tall green blades were proudly sticking out of the ground. Not having much of a green thumb, I was touched and amazed. “Garlic is also a life-form,” I thought. “Each clove is alive, yearning for its moment under the sun and entirely at my mercy for its future.”

Make no mistake, there is no such thing as harmless eating. To eat is to kill (whether you are a vegan or an omnivore).  To appreciate the inevitable pungency of eating ethics, get a head of garlic and rescue one clove by planting it, while killing another clove by cooking it. Contemplate the inevitable arbitrariness of your choice: It is entirely up to you, human god, which garlic life-form gets to live and which must die.  As I see it, there is no need for guilt here. After all, if that clove of garlic could have eaten you instead to assure its survival, it most certainly would have.

adapted from Reinventing the Meal (Somov, 2012)

related: Ahimsa Eating Reconsidered (Somov, Huffington Post)

Garlic photo available from Shutterstock

BYOM

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

eatingdreamingcrpdRumi once wrote:

“My poems resemble the bread of Egypt – one night passes over it, and you can’t eat it any more.  So gobble them down now, while they’re still fresh, before the dust of the world settles on them. [...] And even if you eat my poems while they’re still fresh, you still have to bring forward many images yourself.  Actually, friend, what you’re eating is your own imagination.”

Fascinating imagery, isn’t it?  To read a poem you have to bring your own images (BYOI), you have to populate the black-and-white sterility of language with colors of your associations.

Same with eating: “actually, friend, what you’re eating is your own imagination.”  The imagination you bring to the moment of eating distracts you from  the actual moment of eating: as you soon as you think that you are eating “this,” you are no longer eating “this.”  The labeling, the expectations, the projections that we bring to a moment of eating get in the way of experiencing a given eating moment in its here-and-now uniqueness.

Solution?

Bring your own mindfulness (BYOM) or run the risk of this eating moment going the way of the bread of Egypt – a thought passes over it and it’s stale.

ps:

I am sure the bread of Egypt is awesome if accompanied by BYOM.

Woman eating photo available from Shutterstock

Philosophical Tooth

Thursday, January 17th, 2013

Socrates (in reply to Antipho, in defense of a philosophical way of life) said about eating:

“He who eats with most pleasure is he who least requires sauce.”

What does that mean in today’s self-help lingo?

“He/she who eats with most mindfulness (with most presence, with most savoring-of-the-moment) requires no dessert (or seconds).”

That’s my spin on this ancient pearl of wisdom: a philosophical tooth is a sweet tooth.

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Adapted from “Reinventing the Dessert” (Reinventing the Meal, Somov, 2012).

Nonpredatory Touch

Saturday, January 5th, 2013

Blue tit on the handEating is predatory touch—touch turned into destruction. The first touch is taste, as the molecules of flavor intermingle with the tongue. Then we must grind the food down to a pulp (touching it again and again) before we swallow it. Then we digest (and therefore again touch) the food through chemical hand-to-hand combat. We certainly touch the food as it moves through us, along the length of the digestive tract—the tube that runs through us—in a kind of gustatory massage of peristalsis wherein we are now touched by the reality we swallowed.

Mahadevi, a twelfth-century female devotee of Shiva, suggested another option:

“Finger may squeeze the fig to feel it, yet not choose to eat it” (Ramanujan 1973, 133).

Indeed, why not, every now and then, touch food without eating it? Why not, on occasion, take the predatory element of touch out of eating? Rescue one of the apples you brought home from its digestive fate by tossing it out the window. Let the random chaos of nature do the chewing for you this time. Set a precedent of nonpredatory, nonutilitarian touch.

For a change, let food be something other than food, and let yourself be more than just an eater.

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Adapted from Reinventing the Meal (Somov, 2011).

Creative Commons License photo credit: Tambako the Jaguar

Body Is a Temple, Food Is the Sacrament

Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013

body is a templeIndian architecture offers an intriguing reversal of the concept that the body is a temple, as described by Indian poet and scholar A. K. Ramanujan (1973, 20):

Indian temples are traditionally built in the image of the human body. The ritual for building a temple begins with…planting a pot of seed. The temple is said to rise from the implanted seed, like a human. The different parts of a temple are named after body parts. The two sides are called the hands or wings, the hasta; a pillar is called a foot, pada. The top of the temple is the head, the sikhara. The shrine, the innermost and the darkest sanctum of the temple, is a garbhagrha, the womb-house. The temple thus carries out in brick and stone the primordial blueprint of the human body.

Nifty—but entirely unnecessary. Here’s what another Indian poet Basavanna had to say on the topic:

“The rich will make temples for Siva. What shall I, a poor man, do? My legs are pillars, the body the shrine, the head a cupola of gold. Listen, O lord of the meeting rivers, things standing shall fall, but the moving ever shall stay” (Ramanujan 1973, 20).

Indeed, why imitate what you already have? Your body is a temple. Why build another one? For that matter, why burn the gas to drive your Self to where you are not in the name of worship? Why not worship at home?

What do I mean by “worship”? I mean love. However you want to see the ultimate source—Reality, Creation, Universe, Dao, Cosmos—find a way to connect to it, from within and without brokers.

Even if your body isn’t a temple, it certainly has one. Touch your index finger to the side of your head to point to the cupola of golden presence inside the brick-and-mortar of your skull. And as you next partake of the sacrifice of life that is food, sanctify it with your presence.

When you know yourself, there is no need …

Last Pages, First Impressions

Monday, December 10th, 2012
Morning Shoot

A Moment of Brightness

I am a voracious non-fiction reader, a binge-reader, you could say.  Most of the books I buy are random finds (from used book stores, thrift stores; or when following a chain of associations with the help of Amazon.com).  Whenever I buy books in the physical (rather than virtual) world, I often start from the back.  I browse the last three or so pages of the book – not because I want to know how something ends, but because a book is like a life and its last pages are like the last few breaths: there is something powerfully evanescent about that, a unique kind of intimacy, a moment where the author finally lets go of the pen and returns to the original blank space of the mind-page…

Knowing how we part ways is a good introduction to each other.

So, let me share the last few pages of “Reinventing the Meal,” in case we – reader and author – never meet on the first page.

You are an amazing transmutation machine. You can take in carrots, candy bars, baked beans, bread, plums, porridge, hamburgers, or herrings—and turn them into living energy and whatever body parts you need. A carrot takes light, air, water, and earth, converting them into a crunchy, pointy, orange vegetable, and you turn this carrot into a moving, intelligent, seeing, human being. What an amazing world!

Gregory Sams, Sun of gOd

The big meal-wheel has been spinning, mostly mindlessly, without much frontal-lobe supervision, for at least as long as there has been life on this planet. Our collective evolutionary history is a survival treadmill. Life has been in the business of inventing and reinventing ever-new metabolic cycles, with life-forms finding sustenance in each others’ waste, learning how to squeeze every morsel of energy out of their environment, climbing the pyramid of the solar economy through predatory competition, and also working out mutually beneficial symbiotic energy trusts.

We, the human animals, are the first species to talk about the ethics of eating our fellow life-forms. …

Reinventing the Meal
Reinventing the Meal
Present Perfect
Eating the Moment
The Lotus Effect The Smoke-Free Smoke Break
Pavel G. Somov, Ph.D. is the author of The Lotus Effect, Present Perfect, The Smoke-Free Smoke Break, and Eating the Moment: 141 Mindful Practices to Overcome Overeating One Meal at a Time.


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