can't meditateMy life is pretty chaotic.  It’s the good kind of chaos, but chaotic nonetheless.  A few monts ago I noticed that I’d been a little more stressed than usual and sharted this with a colleague.  She suggested that I try meditating.

MEDITATE?  I almost laughed out loud.  Let’s be honest, I think my brain suffers from what I like to call “I can’t shut down syndrome”.  I’d tried meditation before and it was an epic fail.  I found myself picturing peaceful scenes only to be interrupted by my own random thoughts.  I moved on to mantras that turned into thoughts ranging from what i was going to make for dinner to is it possible to count my eyelashes!  Meditation was not for me, or so I believed.

I was aware of the research stating meditation increases positive coping skills,  helps to learn to focus on the present, reduces negative emotions, and can be beneficial if you suffer from a medical condition worsened by stress.  I was also very aware that in a time where I was dealing with a lot of stress and looking for ways to reduce my stress, meditation is free.  I decided to give this meditation thing another try.  After all, what did I have to lose?  I’d previously found it to be incredibly frustrating, but it didn’t hurt.

I started with a little research this time and foundt there were several types of meditation including:  guided, transcendental, mantra, mindfulness, Qi gong, Tai Chi, and yoga.

Guided meditation looked nice to me.  It included the word “guide” which was clearly something I needed, so I decided to give it a try.  I quickly realize there are guided mediation exercises everywhere.  Technology is amazing!  I downloaded a few and tried them out and found it to be quite fun.  I found a few that were boring and put me to sleep and I found a few that were comical and I couldn’t meditate because I was laughing.  Eventually I found a few that I liked and was soon off to meditation land.

I figured out the key to meditation was finding what worked for me.  I thought I couldn’t meditate, but there is no such thing.   If you’re interested in meditation find the method that best works for you and soon you will be off to meditation land too!

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APA Reference
White, D. (2012). You Want ME to Meditate… LOL!. Psych Central. Retrieved on March 29, 2015, from



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