Comments on: Problem Solving For Couples

By: darine

darine — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 21:41:13 +0000

hi i need somebody to help me with this my boyfriend mom wants to control our engagment party he cant see that but i sure she is i dont like that and this sitiuation is causing a lot of problems between me and him.so what can i do?

By: Suzanne Phillips, Psy.D., ABPP

Suzanne Phillips, Psy.D., ABPP — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 03:23:49 +0000

Cherry: Thank you for sharing your comment. It is clear that you have suffered and that your family has also suffered. I can understand your wish to reunite with your family. Sometimes we want a goal so badly that there is a tendency to overlook the steps that may lead there. I would suggest that you work with a professional therapist to help you rebuild a relationship of trust with your family. You report that you feel better – they need an opportunity to feel better with you and you with them. I would be concentrating on weaving together new experiences and memories that can lead to reconnection rather than push for reconnection before everyone feels safety and trust with each other. With your therapist you may be able to work on setting up consistent visits, help with school work, plan play sessions that will allow them to see and feel you now. Repair of family bonds is a process both with your partner and your children. Often a family therapist is a valuable resource. Your goal is an important one – seek help and resources as you go forward – Best Regards, Suzanne

By: cherrymellis

cherrymellis — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 16:49:48 +0000

Hi, i left my husband and child 3 times just dont know how to get them back
i wasnt well i was depressed so i just left
im now on prozack filling so much better and need my family back
what can i do to make them trust im better and wont leave them ever again
i know i love and miss them i know what i want and im going after it
please help me

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