Well I personally can’t be a moral judge because I have slept with married women before but I can tell you that it really is never as brazen as it may seem on website, at least for those who have never done it before. And generally it is due to unresolved issue with their current or past relationships than it is about wanton sex. The site probably draws attention because often times these women don’t feel desired by their companion so often they go looking for sex when really what they want is someone to look at them with that look and to mean it. So the sex draws them but a personal connection and real intimacy will keep them coming back for more.

And truth be told men aren’t all that different except in the expectations and views of society.

I’m sorry, I accidentally hit “send” on that comment while I was still writing. I’ll write the whole thing here.

@Kenneth:

What is your basis for saying groups that arrange discreet cheating are often co-opted by swingers groups? Because that sounds highly doubtful to me, as from all I have heard, swingers groups are all about having sex with other partners in a way that is CONSENSUAL, meaning BOTH partners agree, and partners are open and honest about this mutual decision – it is not “cheating” in that there is no deception involved. Furthermore, I think that swinging tends generally to be just about sex, with no emotional attachment. This is the opposite of cheating – as you said, cheating is usually about unresolved issues in relationships, and it is as much emotional as it is sexual. In contrast, most swingers have loving, emotionally committed marriages, and are truly honest with one another.

Please don’t let your personal judgments obscure the facts.