Where the heck was Dr. Marisa M. Silveri when I was 14 years old and I needed someone to smack me upside the head with a really good reason not to drink and smoke pot?
(Wait a minute. I just did the math. Dr. Silveri hadn’t even been born when I was 14 years old! Forget I asked that question.)
I spent last Thursday afternoon with Dr. Silveri at the Brain Imaging Center at McLean Hospital, just outside of Boston. Dr. Silveri teaches at Harvard Medical School, like most of the doctors at McLean. She is brilliant, like most of the other doctors at McLean. And she is completely, thoroughly and totally into her research: The adolescent brain.
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This is such an important thing you are trying to communicate. Sadly, the kids who need to know this SO badly are not likely to be reading here tonight.
I managed to avoid chemicals in my teens, but fiction, teddy bears and candy only medicated me until I was married and had kids, ptsd, d.i.d. and depression and then I did my best the self-med. with all the opiates I could talk doctors into giving me. The migraines and pain were real, but in the early 70′s they did not know how badly I needed counseling and proper meds – as I Christian I just kept trying to pray harder and read my Bible more. Now I’m in my 50′s and I’m still a Christian who reads her Bible and takes properly dispensed meds to keep me alive until I can work out the nightmare that was my childhood.
You have an essential message, don’t give up, you are needed!! Thank you!
Will the “delay” message work better than the “just say no message”? Probably not on all teenagers. Some of them will be self-destructive for its own sake. But, I was fortunate enough to have chronic pot smoking friends who I could easily see the effects of. They spoke and reacted more slowly and I simply assume that alcohol must also be harmful during a critical period of neurological development. However, not all teens will have the advantage of burnout friends that I did.
There are many, and often complex, issues underlying teen and adult drug/alcohol misuse. Psychologist and creativity coach/author Eric Maisel, PhD says “The artist is often a drug and alcohol abuser.” Lady Gaga used to lock herself in her room snorting “bags and bags” of cocaine to “get inspiration” for her music, and got high on LSD to emulate pop stars. Tobey Maguire and Kirsten Dunst of “Spider-Man 3″ are both dynamic and accomplished actors – and drug users, like many other creative and talented people have been.
http://talentdevelop.com/21/
It was really interesting for me that part that you said “alcohol is depressant; like throwing gasoline on a fire and tossing a match.” Before I read this post,I thought that the alcohol is the one of the things that people do when they got the depression. However, it was surprised me the fact that alcohol actually caused the depression and it is really bad for brain-works, especailly for the teengaers.
Thanks Lisa D., for stereotyping all teens. I in fact am 15 years old and have been sober from alcohol for 9 months and drugs for a week now. My passion is to major in psychology as I get older. Because I used drugs and alcohol doesn’t mean I’m going nowhere in life. I also deal with clinical depression. I hope you know that not all teens are stupid and don’t know about the choices they make. Most teens do know about the consequences of their actions but make those choices anyway, and that is their decision.
There are a number of different treatment programs and approaches to support alcoholics who decide to get help. I’ve found this website on adolescent depression
to be very informative.
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