Envy and Your Creative Life
Envy is an insult to oneself.
Yevgeny YevtushenkoEnvy is human nature.
Monica Bellucci
A simple dictionary definition of envy is “a feeling of discontent or covetousness with regard to another’s advantages, success, possessions, etc.”
In this famous shot of Sophia Loren (left) and Jayne Mansfield at a Beverly Hills restaurant in 1957, Loren may or may not be feeling envy – but I like the photo.
Reportedly, Mansfield’s extravagant cleavage was a publicity stunt intended to deflect attention from Sophia Loren during a dinner party in Loren’s honor.
Envy can be an insidious feeling, with a collection of attitudes and beliefs that impact our creative energy and motivation.


“Patience is a somewhat devalued commodity. Particularly among those who ought to know better – writers themselves.” Dennis Palumbo
Gaming is not of any particular interest to me, but I was intrigued with a recent newspaper report about Erin Reynolds, a USC cinematic arts graduate student, and her team who are developing a video game that “uses heart-rate sensors to help players learn to stay calm as they wind their way through a decrepit house filled with their characters’ horrific memories.
“It makes more sense in its absurdity than it would have if it were created by just one person, one designer.”
According to a Psych Central entry (by Renée Grinnell), catharsis means “the first full realization and expression of emotions surrounding significant occurrences in one’s past; emotional release.”
Neil Gaiman is one of the world’s best known science fiction and fantasy writers, the author of short stories, graphic novels, films and novels, including The Sandman series, American Gods, Stardust, Coraline, Anansi Boys and The Graveyard Book.