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		<title>By: Amy Winehouse Slurs Performance, Cancels European Tour &#124; Celebrity Psychings</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy Winehouse Slurs Performance, Cancels European Tour &#124; Celebrity Psychings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jun 2011 15:47:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] late May, Winehouse checked into rehab at London&#8217;s Priory Clinic, but completed a clinic assessment that deemed her fit to continue with outpatient treatment in [...]</description>
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		<title>By: GladToBeAlive</title>
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		<dc:creator>GladToBeAlive</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 16:01:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ms. Boyles--a victim of the bad fruitage from competition.

As with all things, I always think about what the Creator&#039;s view is and in this matter on rivalry and competition some scriptural thoughts come to my mind.

Here is a couple of clipped pieces on the dangers of going beyond our God-given friendly playful streak into seeking glory and victory at the expense of another:

*** g92 3/8 p. 22 Part 5—Big Business Tightens Its Grip ***

Competition fosters feelings of envy, jealousy, and greed. People who excel may begin to think themselves superior, making them arrogant and overbearing. Consistent losers, on the other hand, may suffer from a lack of self-esteem, causing despondency. Faced with competitive pressures with which they cannot cope, they may choose to drop out, an attitude that helps explain the surge in suicides among young people in some countries.

Understandably, then, the wise counsel of the Bible is: “Let us not become egotistical, stirring up competition with one another, envying one another.”—Galatians 5:26

(Ecclesiastes 4:4) . . .And I myself have seen all the hard work and all the proficiency in work, that it means the rivalry of one toward another; this also is vanity and a striving after the wind.

*** g95 12/8 p. 15 Is Competition in Sports Wrong? ***When Competition Goes Too Far

What, then, was the apostle Paul saying to fellow Christians when he told them not to be “stirring up competition with one another”? (Galatians 5:26)

The answer lies in the context. Paul prefaced this statement by telling them not to “become egotistical” or, as other Bible translations phrase it, not to become “proud,” “conceited,” “desirous of vain glory.”

The pursuit of fame and glory was prevalent among the athletes of Paul’s day.
So too in today’s vainglorious world, more and more athletes resort to strutting and calling attention to themselves and their skills. Some go so far as to demean others. Taunting, finger-pointing, and verbal degradation, or what some athletes call “trash talking,” are rapidly becoming the norm.

All of this would be “stirring up competition,” leading to what Paul referred to in the concluding part of Galatians 5:26—envy.

At its worst, unbalanced competition leads to fights and even death....

A Balanced View--
Recreational sports and games should be refreshing—not depressing.
This we can achieve by keeping things in perspective, remembering that our worth to God and our fellowman has nothing to do with our skills in sports or games.
It would be foolish to allow feelings of superiority to well up within us because of physical or mental abilities.
So let us avoid the unseemly, worldly tendency to call attention to ourselves, lest we provoke envy in others, for love does not brag. (1 Corinthians 13:4; 1 Peter 2:1)

 ...We would never measure the worth of others by their abilities in sports and games.
Similarly, we would not want to think any less of ourselves because of lack of skill.

...we should remember how insignificant any game really is—people’s true worth does not depend on how well they perform. ...

...Paul noted that “bodily training is beneficial for a little; but godly devotion is beneficial for all things.”—1 Timothy 4:8.

So in their proper place, sports and games are enjoyable and refreshing.

The Bible condemns, not all competition, but competition that stirs up vanity, rivalry, greed, envy, or violence.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ms. Boyles&#8211;a victim of the bad fruitage from competition.</p>
<p>As with all things, I always think about what the Creator&#8217;s view is and in this matter on rivalry and competition some scriptural thoughts come to my mind.</p>
<p>Here is a couple of clipped pieces on the dangers of going beyond our God-given friendly playful streak into seeking glory and victory at the expense of another:</p>
<p>*** g92 3/8 p. 22 Part 5—Big Business Tightens Its Grip ***</p>
<p>Competition fosters feelings of envy, jealousy, and greed. People who excel may begin to think themselves superior, making them arrogant and overbearing. Consistent losers, on the other hand, may suffer from a lack of self-esteem, causing despondency. Faced with competitive pressures with which they cannot cope, they may choose to drop out, an attitude that helps explain the surge in suicides among young people in some countries.</p>
<p>Understandably, then, the wise counsel of the Bible is: “Let us not become egotistical, stirring up competition with one another, envying one another.”—Galatians 5:26</p>
<p>(Ecclesiastes 4:4) . . .And I myself have seen all the hard work and all the proficiency in work, that it means the rivalry of one toward another; this also is vanity and a striving after the wind.</p>
<p>*** g95 12/8 p. 15 Is Competition in Sports Wrong? ***When Competition Goes Too Far</p>
<p>What, then, was the apostle Paul saying to fellow Christians when he told them not to be “stirring up competition with one another”? (Galatians 5:26)</p>
<p>The answer lies in the context. Paul prefaced this statement by telling them not to “become egotistical” or, as other Bible translations phrase it, not to become “proud,” “conceited,” “desirous of vain glory.”</p>
<p>The pursuit of fame and glory was prevalent among the athletes of Paul’s day.<br />
So too in today’s vainglorious world, more and more athletes resort to strutting and calling attention to themselves and their skills. Some go so far as to demean others. Taunting, finger-pointing, and verbal degradation, or what some athletes call “trash talking,” are rapidly becoming the norm.</p>
<p>All of this would be “stirring up competition,” leading to what Paul referred to in the concluding part of Galatians 5:26—envy.</p>
<p>At its worst, unbalanced competition leads to fights and even death&#8230;.</p>
<p>A Balanced View&#8211;<br />
Recreational sports and games should be refreshing—not depressing.<br />
This we can achieve by keeping things in perspective, remembering that our worth to God and our fellowman has nothing to do with our skills in sports or games.<br />
It would be foolish to allow feelings of superiority to well up within us because of physical or mental abilities.<br />
So let us avoid the unseemly, worldly tendency to call attention to ourselves, lest we provoke envy in others, for love does not brag. (1 Corinthians 13:4; 1 Peter 2:1)</p>
<p> &#8230;We would never measure the worth of others by their abilities in sports and games.<br />
Similarly, we would not want to think any less of ourselves because of lack of skill.</p>
<p>&#8230;we should remember how insignificant any game really is—people’s true worth does not depend on how well they perform. &#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;Paul noted that “bodily training is beneficial for a little; but godly devotion is beneficial for all things.”—1 Timothy 4:8.</p>
<p>So in their proper place, sports and games are enjoyable and refreshing.</p>
<p>The Bible condemns, not all competition, but competition that stirs up vanity, rivalry, greed, envy, or violence.</p>
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		<title>By: Alicia Sparks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alicia Sparks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 15:27:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Kristine - Thanks for chiming in. :) If you&#039;ll notice, the conclusions I drew were based solely on Susan&#039;s brother&#039;s statements (&quot;She’s now beginning to believe that, &#039;yes indeed, I will be a singer&#039;&quot;, etc.) (which, I think, if his statements are to be trusted, clearly show that there was a period in which she worried about her future singing career), and not just conclusions I drew based on my own thoughts or opinions.

I wholeheartedly agree she must have been under extreme pressure for which she wasn&#039;t prepared. For many people, the thought of going on one of these shows and being even semi-successful is like a fantasy come true, but we don&#039;t often stop to think about the negative consequences, and I believe that&#039;s the point Dr. Thompson was trying to make.

It&#039;s great that Susan got the help and rest she needed, and hopefully she&#039;s as prepared as she can be to take the music industry by storm. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Kristine &#8211; Thanks for chiming in. <img src='http://blogs.psychcentral.com/celebrity/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  If you&#8217;ll notice, the conclusions I drew were based solely on Susan&#8217;s brother&#8217;s statements (&#8220;She’s now beginning to believe that, &#8216;yes indeed, I will be a singer&#8217;&#8221;, etc.) (which, I think, if his statements are to be trusted, clearly show that there was a period in which she worried about her future singing career), and not just conclusions I drew based on my own thoughts or opinions.</p>
<p>I wholeheartedly agree she must have been under extreme pressure for which she wasn&#8217;t prepared. For many people, the thought of going on one of these shows and being even semi-successful is like a fantasy come true, but we don&#8217;t often stop to think about the negative consequences, and I believe that&#8217;s the point Dr. Thompson was trying to make.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s great that Susan got the help and rest she needed, and hopefully she&#8217;s as prepared as she can be to take the music industry by storm. <img src='http://blogs.psychcentral.com/celebrity/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kristine Arai</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristine Arai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 15:16:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you may be jumping to conclusions about Susan being afraid to lose a career.  I believe she was under unimaginable pressure, which she was ill prepared for, for many months.  Suddenly the pressure is gone and there is no immediate reason to hold herself together.  Many people hold themselves together through a crisis and fall apart afterward.  From what I&#039;ve read, Susan doesn&#039;t seem to be the type to crave fame and fortune and everyone knows former contestants often go on to careers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you may be jumping to conclusions about Susan being afraid to lose a career.  I believe she was under unimaginable pressure, which she was ill prepared for, for many months.  Suddenly the pressure is gone and there is no immediate reason to hold herself together.  Many people hold themselves together through a crisis and fall apart afterward.  From what I&#8217;ve read, Susan doesn&#8217;t seem to be the type to crave fame and fortune and everyone knows former contestants often go on to careers.</p>
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		<title>By: PsychCentral</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 03:25:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: John Howard</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Howard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 02:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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