How would you feel if a healthcare provider said to you “come back with your son (or daughter) when he/she tells you they want to kill themselves or someone else? What about if this mental health professional or doctor told you “your insurance will not cover mental health care unless your loved one is at imminent risk?” These are the types of things multiple families and parents are hearing almost daily across the nation when they seek to hospitalize or get care for their loved one. There is no recourse for these families.
What are the signs of psychiatric need? How can you ever tell if someone is in need of help? Is it by the way that they look, talk, or behave? Perhaps. Does the individual have to look disheveled or depressed? For many people these are the signs of the mental health need. But for mental health professionals it can be very difficult to decipher between an individual who does not care for themselves and an individual who needs psychiatric intervention. It’s a very tricky situation.
Note: Video length 40:53 and emotional.
- communication of therapist’s intrapsychic conflicts to the patient
- contamination of the transference and consequent interpretations
- the dissolution of the therapeutic “hold”
- the possibility of inappropriate gratification resulting from counter-transference problems
If I were to quiz you on the 10 worst signs of a bad therapist would you know what they are? Have you ever had a therapist or met with one before? What did you like about them or dislike? It’s often difficult for people to decipher a good therapist from a bad therapist until something unethical happens.
What would you do if you had a son who was contemplating suicide? Would you panic? Would you get depressed and give up? Would you seek help? In many cases, families experience a host of emotions when they learn a loved one is contemplating suicide. Some panic, some give up and get depressed, and others seek help. Some families do all of these things and go through cycles of emotions. All this week we have been learning from the stories of families who have volunteered to share their stories, experiences, and thoughts with us. Although this is our final story, I encourage you to share with others who may feel supported by knowing that they are not alone. Lets meet Tina.
Suicide. Sometimes that word alone is enough to provoke a sea of emotions in many of us. Either we’ve known someone with thoughts of suicide, lost a loved one to suicide, know a friend who lost someone to suicide, or hear about it daily in the news. Either way, the word itself holds so much meaning, so much emotion, so much hopelessness. The word itself is powerful enough to silence an entire room. The word has always held a haunting foundation for me. Even as a therapist I have trouble conceptualizing it, talking about it, and dealing with it. How about you?
Do you know a college student or young adult who suffers from anxiety? Anxiety has become one of the most frequent complaints of both mental health and medical patients. It is something most of us experience on a daily basis and might suffer from more than we care to admit. Anxiety can creep up on us in the middle of a joyful event, on our way to work, on our way home after work, during rush hour, during grocery shopping, or even during a date-night with your hubby. Sadly, anxiety has no particular schedule. It comes and it goes when it pleases.
What comes to mind when you think of a therapist? Do you think of someone who wears glasses, sits behind a desk, answers phone calls, and sees patients all day? If so, the field of mental health is not doing a good job at giving you a realistic view of who we are. Therapists hold so many titles, roles, and take on multiple responsibilities. For many people, a therapist is someone who talks about problems, thoughts, worries, and feelings. But that’s not all some of them do.