Sara Asks…

I am trying to get back to work and find a better job. But what is “better?” I was doing what I thought I loved to do. I have spent $30,000 on my education, and have been working toward this particular career goal for 12 years. I have tried to get out of it as it seems that my major bi-polar episodes have coincided with work. But the more I get away from it the sadder and more detached from myself I feel.

I am currently applying to a job back in my old field – am I doing the right thing? My husband is worried, he got to see things from the outside (and was terrified for me) and was relieved when I began searching for a job that would put me on a more even keel; for instance, I wouldn’t be bringing my work home. The current position I am interested in seems like it may be a compromise because it is more limited hours and it would be more of a collaborative effort with my co-workers. Advice anyone?

Dr. Fink Answers…

Hi, Sara–

Returning to work can be very challenging, but what you say in your second to last sentence about the new job being a compromise, offering more limited hours, and giving you an environment of collaboration sounds like you’re taking the right approach. Your husband has every right to be worried, but if your meds are effective, you keep taking them, and you carefully monitor the situation with your doctor and others, I don’t see why you can’t return to the work you invested so much of your life preparing for.

We have several posts in the Career category that you may find useful in planning and managing your return to work. We wish you the best.

If you’ve returned to the same job after being diagnosed with bipolar disorder or changed jobs or careers, please share your experiences and insights.

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PsychCentral (November 13, 2009)

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