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kjenny kelton asks…

I have recently entered into a relationship with a man with this illness and know nothing about it. I want to be there for him, but he just says he needs to be on his own. How do I help him?

Dr. Fink Answers…

Although you cannot force help on anyone or make them seek treatment on their own, except in very rare circumstances, being their and offering your support is often enough. One of the best things that loved ones can do is to begin learning more about bipolar on their own. This can help you develop a sense of empathy and understanding.

Programs like NAMI’s Family-to-Family are another excellent resource for developing a greater understanding of bipolar and for learning how to help your loved one and help yourself by establishing your own boundaries and seeking whatever help and support you need to deal with the challenges that often arise.


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    Last reviewed: 10 Apr 2009

APA Reference
Fink, C. (2009). Bipolar Disorder Q&A: How do I help someone with bipolar who doesn’t want my help?. Psych Central. Retrieved on May 22, 2012, from http://blogs.psychcentral.com/bipolar/2009/04/bipolar-disorder-qa-how-do-i-help-someone-with-bipolar-who-doesn%e2%80%99t-want-my-help/

 

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