In Part I of this two-part series, we examined the role that genetics likely plays in the onset of bipolar disorder and learned that genetics contributes up to 80%, with environmental factors contributing about 20% or more. (This means that if someone has bipolar disorder, the cause of it is 75-80% due to genetics. It does not mean an individual in a family with a history of bipolar has a 75-80% chance of developing it. See Part I for statistics on the inheritability of bipolar.)
It appears that for most people there needs to be some environmental factors that “turn on” the genes responsible for one’s vulnerability to bipolar disorder. Many of these environmental triggers may occur early in life and may include things such as:
So “insults” – both large and small – to the growing brain may be part of what “turns on” the bipolar genes. But there are other events that occur later in life that are believed to be possible triggers as well. These can include:
Again, the brain wired to be at risk for bipolar may be stressed by events that would not stress a brain that didn’t have the wiring. So it may not be a big event that is required to trigger the illness.
Obviously, you can’t do anything about the genes you inherited, and your own early childhood events cannot be reversed. You’re pretty much stuck with those. But can you do anything about those other factors that contribute to the bipolar genes actually being expressed? If you have a genetic vulnerability to bipolar disorder, is there anything you can do to improve your odds of not developing it? If you have children, can you improve their odds of dodging the bipolar bullet?
If you have a child or a loved one who’s been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, the most important thing is not to play the blame game. My co-author for Bipolar Disorder For Dummies, Joe Kraynak, has bipolar in his family, and has told me that he feels (in hindsight) that he could have done more to prevent it. (By the way, Joe and his family gave me permission to talk about their situation.) Joe’s been dealing with this for some time, so he’s well aware that these what-if scenarios are kind of silly, but he thinks about it all the same.
If you feel the temptation to blame yourself, stop it. Most of the triggers are probably things that you could not control – we don’t have a good handle on what triggers are most important and when they have to occur to cause illness. Furthermore just general life stress – unavoidable in everyday life – may be all it takes. We just don’t have enough information to be able to clearly state what to do and what not to do. So blaming yourself doesn’t make any sense. And furthermore it won’t do any good and will make you miserable for no good reason. This can reduce your own emotional strength to manage stress and illness in yourself and your loved ones.
No studies have shown that creating a particular emotional environment can prevent the onset of bipolar disorder or any other mental illness, but it makes sense that a less stressful environment is more conducive to mental health. So, how do you create such an environment? Take a lesson from the pros – people with bipolar disorder who live with it on a daily basis. Most of them know full well what they can do to reduce the stressors and triggers in their lives:
Remember: Even if you do everything “right,” you can’t control everything in anyone else’s life let alone your own, and even if you could (and did), there’s no guarantee that it would prevent the onset of bipolar disorder. Establishing an atmosphere of mutual respect and kindness is most important – it could help keep bipolar out of your home, and if bipolar does manage to get in, you’ll have developed stronger relationships that help you deal with it as a family.
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I am searching for a reason to explain this weird behavior. I have had a friend since childhood. For years, this person had a husband who was an alcholic and then,turned to gambling. She never complained, but now her behavior has me concerned. She is upset, overly so, because last year I had some illnesses that prevented me from socializing with this whole group of friends. Now at 72, we go out for brunch or dinner. I would have to cancel and this is how this behavior started. All of last year I had some serious issues and we laid low because they interferred with our social life. This is the weird part, I have gotten some help and doing much better and the doctors have connected my weakness with a blood platelet problem.
I called my friend and told her that I would like to return to our group. She is the one who manages our turns by just telling us it is our turn to invite, schedule an event and let everyone know. She blasted me verbally saying that she never believed me. This story goes back to give you some background to a time when one of our children got a horrible virus and if she was sick, we’d cancel. Now, it is me and the same thing for me, I have been advised to rest when this problem happens.
My friend told me that she “didn’t believe me then (referring back 37 years when our daughter was a sick baby) and she doesn’t believe me now ( my illness).
This upset me and the more I think about it, the more confused I get over her rejection of my reasons and rudeness to me. This conversation took place over the phone, and after her speech about believing us, she hung up on me.
I am a professional educator of 37 years and have had some experience with certain behaviors. I am not diagnosing hers! but asking how I should manage my reaction because this has caused a division amongst our friends. I understand,that I am the one who cancels and the “then” remark meant she didn’t believe us when we used our oldest
daughter’s illness as a reason for canceling.
She is pointing out a similiarity to our reasons and making a judgment that is totally off-balance. I am an upfront person, most professionals and educated persons are not as petty, at least from my experience.
Here is my problem: of course, I am hurt about being misjudged, but how do I handle her irrational behavior and then, this is the big part she lied to the others and reversed the story to make me look like I made accusations to her. I didn’t even get a chance to respond to her rant, when she hung up on me.
My husband recalls that my only response was:
K. that is not true and that may have been, what made her hang up rudely. I never called back, left it ride, now the rest of group has literally decided to drop us from the events that since high school we attended. I left the area, went to college, grad school and returned and we settled here.
I am afraid of her erratic behavior and confused about how I should respond. I haven’t responded but she has talked with everyone else and her presentation has caused a ripple effect with the others.
They do not want friction in this group and must believe her. What should I do? I have not approached anyone with an explanation or an attempt to raise confusion in their minds. I am hoping that this is a sign that will repeat itself again, but will not involve me but will clarify her behavior to them.
After this incident, my grown daughter called my friend and this subject came up with. My daughter told our friend what I said happened. I call this the “whisper” game and never participate in discussing situations. It just involves more imput and I prefer to let things settle on their own. Actually, only in a professional way have I had to use this practice.
What should I do? remain silent and let this pass or will it build and grow. In this group, this has happened before. It was when I first returned to this area and did not get involved, but I remember feeling bad for that woman.
Is this regular and normal behavior? As a professional I have never encountered this.I am not degrading those who have not experienced higher education but it does seem that this is all over nothing.
What can you advise me?