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Ethics in Parenting: Justice

Friday, November 14th, 2014


scales-of-justice-and-child1“In matters of truth and justice, there is no difference between large and small problems, for issues concerning the treatment of people are all the same.” ~ Albert Einstein.


The fourth principle in the APA Code of Ethics concerns justice. We can apply this principle to ethics in parenting. How does justice apply to ethical parenting? Let’s take a look.

When Children Remember 9/11/2001

Monday, March 3rd, 2014

neverforget911“Memory is the diary that we all carry about with us.” ~ Oscar Wilde.

We don’t need to worry about forgetting. We have a part of the brain whose job it is to secure all information for future use.

Events That Changed Your Life

Monday, December 9th, 2013

918kuG-Vt1L._SL1500_-1“Loss is nothing else but change, and change is nature’s delight.” ~ Marcus Aurelius, Meditations.

“To spare oneself from grief at all cost can be achieved only at the price of total detachment, which excludes the ability to experience happiness.” ~ Erich Fromm.

Loss permeates the experience of life. It follows us through our lifetime.

The Trickle-Down Effect: Children and Parent Mental Illness

Monday, October 28th, 2013

unfair_0“You could run from someone you feared, you could try to fight someone you hated. All my reactions were geared toward those kinds of killers, the monsters, the enemies. When you loved the one who was killing you, it left you no options. How could you run, how could you fight, when doing so would hurt that beloved one? If your¬† life was all you had to give your beloved, how could you not give it? If it were someone you truly loved?”~ Bella Swan.

What is a child to do when mommy or daddy abuses, uses, or is dependent on drugs or alcohol?

Children, Teens, and Depression

Thursday, October 10th, 2013

child-abuse-729-420x0“The test of the morality of a society is what it does for its children.” ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer.

Depression comes in many forms. Sometimes it appears in obvious formats, such as through a sad face or slumped head and shoulders, or even through little eye contact and the lack of a smile. These are the more obvious forms of depression, as it might appear on the outside. Let’s take a look at how depression looks in children and teens.

Children And Substance Dependent Parents

Thursday, September 26th, 2013

article-2123061-00A7FA1A00000259-456_468x301“In a way, I wanted my mum to go back to prison, because she was clean (drug free) for a few weeks when she came out of prison.” ~ Child, (European Monitoring Centre for Drugs and Drug Addiction).

The children of parents with substance dependence and abuse problems suffer silently.

“But Mommy You Promised You Wouldn’t Do That Again”

Tuesday, August 20th, 2013

my_mother_is_a_hoarder-460x307“At the end, all that’s left of you are your possessions. Perhaps that’s why I’ve never been able to throw anything away. Perhaps that’s why I’ve hoarded the world: with the hope that when I died, the sum total of my things would suggest a life larger than the one I lived.” ~ Nicole Krauss.

Hoarding, obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, and complicated grief coalesce to create an avalanche of chaos. I hear stories of children who beg their mother or father to not engage in behaviors that, even to a child, seem out-of-control. What are children to do about their parents who hoard?

A Love Affair With Violence

Tuesday, July 23rd, 2013


“Human beings are like parts of a body, created from the same essence. When one part is hurt and in pain, the others cannot remain in peace and be quiet. If the misery of others leaves you indifferent and with no feelings of sorrow, you should not be called a human being.” ~ Sa’adi, thirteenth century Persian poet.

 Violence is a collective experience. If one suffers we all suffer. If enough violence permeates culture, society, families, and institutions the populace will become numb. Once this happens violence is free to metastasize.

The Child That Wants To Hurt Others

Monday, July 15th, 2013

anger-child“The best fighter is never angry.” ~ Lao Tzu.

For the therapist it is not unusual to meet children who are angry. In fact, it is not unusual to meet children who want to hurt others. They use words like; “I want to kill”, “I hate him”, “I want him dead.” On one level it is shocking to hear tiny children speak with such force and conviction toward malfeasance. On the other hand I take to heart my job, which is to understand what this is really about.

College Bound Anxiety

Tuesday, July 9th, 2013

Library-Books-300x199Library-Books-300x199“Where’d the days go, when all we did was play? And the stress that we were under wasn’t stress at all just a run and a jump into a harmless fall.” ~ Paolo Nutini.

Next month many thousands of students will be heading off for college to become part of the Freshman class. These seventeen and eighteen-year old youth will be leaving known environs of home, community, and friends. They are leaving their tribe and coming together in a geographic location where there are many unknown tribes with unfamiliar cultures.


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