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There is Only One Good Way to Rewrite History


There are certain things you shouldn't do when you're depressed, like watching sad stuff on TV. I try to avoid that sort of thing as much as possible. Actually, I've decided that watching a few reruns of "The Golden Girls" is great therapy for those down days.

The other day I was dealing with a very bored, very restless sort of depression. I've talked about this before - when you get that way, you don't really...
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Adolescence

Our Love-Hate Relationship with Social Media


Ah, social media. I kind of hate you, but I can't quit you.

Facebook is great for many things. I love keeping in touch with my family in California on a daily basis. I like seeing pictures of my friends and their kids (and their cats, and their dogs), and even their food, sometimes. It's a good place to have deep, meaningful discussions and heated debates. It's where I keep up with Amy Grant and find...
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Advice

Triggers


As I write this, I've got a lot on my plate.
A husband facing a health crisis.
Financial struggles.
A book project I can't seem to dream into existence.

I don't know how it is for you, but around here life is a delicate balancing act between trusting...
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Bipolar Disorder

Which Matters More: Brain or Body?


By day, I write for a large law firm that deals primarily with personal injury litigation. These aren't the small, ridiculous cases you hear Stephen Colbert making fun of on The Colbert Report, these are huge cases that often involve injuries, illnesses, and deaths caused by medications. I never cease to be amazed at the way pharmaceutical companies will put millions of lives at risk to earn a profit. I've come to the conclusion that...
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Advice

Talking Faith and Mental Illness: Suicide


Blogger and former psychiatrist Adrian Warnock is hosting a "broad conversation about faith and mental illness" and last week I responded to his question about the way my own faith community has historically viewed mental illness, and how my own faith shapes my views of it. This week Warnock touches on the very sensitive subject of suicide.
Research suggests that religious faith protects against suicide. Why do you think that is in light...
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Advice

Family: Trading Understanding for Acceptance

Mothers Day is a touchy holiday for some people. I know it was for me.
I didn't always get along with my mother and, actually, there was a time in my life when I wanted to disappear without a trace because I was sick of all the fighting and painful feelings. But that was many years ago and now I have a pretty good relationship with Mom. It's not perfect, but no relationship is. I'm just happy...
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Advice

Mental Health Frustrations and Rethinking Church – Kinda

The Mental Health Grace Alliance published a blog post last week entitled 3 Frustrations of Mental Health and the Church; 3 Ways to Re:Think Church.

The post covers:

Spiritual Stigma
unfortunately, pastoral staff members grow frustrated when they don’t understand why their ministry methods are not working.  In response, they unknowingly go into “religious default” mode, which places the blame on the individual, rather than the ministry. Like Job’s friends, it’s assumed that this hardship/ problem...
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Advice

Wednesday’s Hope Round-Up


Sorry for the week-long break, guys. I was not feeling well most of last week, so a hope round-up is a great way to start a fresh blogging cycle! First up...

Study: Believing in God Helps Treat Mental Health Disorders
I love it when science proves something I already know. :-) A study published in the Journal of Affective Disorders says that people who believe in a "higher power" were more likely to see positive results from treatment. Researchers studied people with depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety and other disorders and found that "those who expressed believing in God between "moderate" and "high" had better chances of responding well to treatment, while those who said the do not believe in God or only believe in him slightly had a doubled risk of not responding to treatment."
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Bible

Rick Warren’s Petition of Hope

It's a little late for Wednesday's Hope Round-Up, but this story gave me a lot of hope: Rick Warren wants what we all want - to urge educators, lawmakers, healthcare professionals, and church congregations to raise the awareness and lower the stigma of mental illness … and support the families that deal with mental illness on a daily basis.

As you may know, Rick Warren's son,
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