Archives for October, 2010

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Appreciative Statements to Improve Relationships

Self-esteem is built inside the mind, from evidence that comes from outside.

It doesn't work well to feed someone ready-made positive messages. Telling your loved one over and over You are great! You are the best! You are a winner! might sound like the obvious way to build self-esteem (just drum the thoughts into their skull!) But your loved one needs to build the messages himself in order for them to stick.
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Life Lesson from the SAT

Yesterday, several of my students took the October SAT exam. It's a long and challenging test, and we all worked hard to prepare for it.

One of my SAT mantras is this: The easy questions are worth just as much as the hard questions.

And it's true. On the SAT, every question is worth exactly one point: the easy ones, the medium ones, and the super-toughies. They're not equal in effort, but they are equal in value!

I repeat this fact to my students many times, because it's counter-intuitive. Surely ultra-easy math Question #1 isn't worth as much as crazy-hard Question #20? But, yes, it is!
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