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Why I’m Going Off ADHD Medication

Friday, March 28th, 2014

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I’ve been off my ADHD stimulant medication for about two weeks now.

When I started taking meds, I promised myself that one day I’d get off them. It looks like that day is here.

I didn’t plan it, exactly. My prescription ran out and my doctor was on holidays so I couldn’t get it renewed.

My decision not to renew my prescription

The medication hasn’t been as effective over the past few years as it had been, so, after about two weeks with no major disasters, I decided to make my move.

Given that some adults don’t respond to ADHD medications (notably Dr. Ned Hallowell, co-author of Driven to Distraction among them) I figure there must be a way to do this.

Truth be told, I’m perfectly willing to go back on meds if my experiment fails.


ADHD: Awesome or Awful? Depends…

Tuesday, March 25th, 2014

Zoë and her birth mom, 2006Zoë and her birth mom, 2006So I’m interviewing an adult with ADHD. His resume is intimidating. He’s brilliant, funny, accomplished. And his ADHD stories are off-the-charts.

Suddenly, impeccable professional that I am, I burst into tears. And no, it’s not because I’m jealous (I am; but that’s not why I’m crying).


New Research on ADHD and Childhood Abuse

Wednesday, March 19th, 2014

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A study published on March 3, 2014 in the Journal of Aggression, Maltreatment, and Trauma shows 30% of adults with ADHD reporting physical abuse before the age of 18 (as opposed to 7% of the general population). The researchers conclude that there’s a strong association between childhood abuse and ADHD.

Sadly, I’m not surprised. This was on my list of as-yet unproven theories about ADHD. I talked about some of the reasons why kids with ADHD were at higher risk of being abused in my post Spanking Hurts ADHD Kids More Than You Think, Part I.

My theory takes this link a little further. I’m convinced that not only is there a link between childhood abuse and ADHD, but it’s likely that your ADHD symptoms are more severe and more intractable if you experience both, especially if you’re not diagnosed until late in life.


ADHD and Gullibility – Part II

Tuesday, February 18th, 2014

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In ADHD and Gullibility – Part I I shared an incident where I nearly got caught by a telephone scam artist. Those of us with ADHD might be smart, but unfortunately that doesn’t inoculate us against being taken advantage of.

In today’s post I’ll explain why we can be sitting ducks for practical jokers,  scammers, and con-artists, and what to do about it.

Missing social cues

As kids, a lot of us with ADHD were either drowning in social awkwardness; having too much fun splashing in the pool; or too busy fantasizing about sailing the seven seas to have learned to read social cues.


ADHD Management: When Enough is Enough

Tuesday, January 28th, 2014

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I’ve been noticing a growing anxiety over the past few months, especially when I open my email. It wasn’t until I got away from my desk to a quiet, contemplative place (also known as the library) that I realized what was happening.

Last year, I signed up for newsletters, free webinars, courses, and other offerings from ADHD experts. After all, managing your ADHD is a full-time job, right? Paradoxically, things were already going well. So well, I didn’t have time to read, let alone participate in most of the forthcoming e-mails’ invitations.

Every time I ignored an expert’s e-mail, I felt guilty, incompetent, and worried that I’d missed the ADHD tip of the century! I’d inadvertently recreated my pre-diagnosis sense of failure. Once again, I just couldn’t keep up.

I’d voluntarily subscribed. The problem was, I’d never stopped to ask why.


Yoga and ADHD Treatment – Part II

Thursday, January 16th, 2014

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In Yoga and ADHD Treatment – Part I, I talked about some similarities between the discipline of yoga and ADHD treatment. Today, I’ll cover some specific yoga components that might be helpful in managing ADHD symptoms.

Be prepared for some surprises!

A few of my favorite yoga things

Besides wearing comfy, funky Lululemon clothes (with the notable exception of the see-through pants, that’s just not a good look for me), I gained a lot of positive benefits from my experience as a member of a Kripalu Yoga Centre oh-so-many years ago.


Yoga and ADHD Treatment – Part I

Wednesday, January 15th, 2014

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Last year, I stepped up my commitment to yoga practice. For inspiration, I picked up a book called The Yoga of the Yogi, written by Kausthub Desikachar.

Desikachar’s book fuelled my hypothesis that yoga has the potential to be tremendously helpful to those of us with the Gift.

The popularized notion of yoga leads us to believe that it’s merely a form of exercise where we turn ourselves into human pretzels and balloon animals. As fun as that sounds, yoga is much more than that, and its primary focus is the mind, not the body.

yoga is to direct the mind on a chosen focus and maintain that focus without distraction

-  from the Yoga Sutra by historic yoga master Patanjali, as quoted in The Yoga of the Yogi


Zoë’s Christmas Turkey

Thursday, December 19th, 2013
Who's the turkey now?

Seriously, how hard can this be?

I was heading into the Christmas season calm, cool, and collected. Note that I said, “was.”

So how did things go so terribly wrong?

Let me tell you. Through a simple act of kindness, that’s how.

I helped a neighbor dig out after a snowstorm, and she rewarded me by leaving a 15-pound frozen turkey hanging on my side door.


ADHD and Looking For Memory Lane

Monday, November 18th, 2013

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My friend (we’ll call her Cathy) met up with some of her old pals in the city where she used to live. I could tell by the look on her face the visit hadn’t been completely positive.

“I was so embarrassed,” she said. One of her friends had been reminiscing about the good old days, while my friend stared blankly. “I couldn’t remember a thing about it.”

I felt sad for Cathy, who also has ADHD.

People with ADHD have bad memories, I said, trying to reassure her that there was a good reason why she couldn’t remember things from her past.


Am I Ready for My Closeup, Mr. DeMille? ADHD and Fame

Thursday, November 14th, 2013

Zoe Kessler on the red carpet.It’s often said that acting is a great career for people with ADHD. After all, it’s a job with constant change: costumes, locations, and roles. Anything but boring, right? (and we all know that people with ADHD actually can die from boredom).

I too assumed it was the highly stimulating nature of the work that made acting such a great job for people with ADHD.

I was wrong.

Okay, partially wrong. I’m sure the frequent change-ups are great. But I’ll let you in on a little secret: there’s another reason.


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