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The Scariest ADHD Things You Will Ever Hear … Or Say

Wednesday, January 28th, 2015
Heard any good ones lately?

Heard any good ones lately?

ADHD is not necessarily a good place to be. It’s not the Ritz, not easy street, not a walk in the park.

And yet, for the most part, if you have it, it’s where you’re most at home. Like me, if you have ADHD, you’ve lived here all your life.

It’s kind of like living on the so called “wrong” side of town. It’s not really all that unsafe, so long as you know where to walk, what to do, who to steer clear of. You know, the little things … all those things we’re not all that good at remembering to do.


Coming Clean With The ADHD Laundry Conundrum

Monday, January 12th, 2015
So this is why my dresser is empty ...

So this is why my dresser is empty …

I don’t write a help column. If you’re looking for tips & tricks, hints to a happy life, what the kids are calling “hacks” these days, you may find a few that work for you here, but that’s not my job.

What is my job? Well, among other things, I talk about what my life is like and the things I notice that are likely part of, or at least influenced by, my ADHD.

If you read my blog and you catch yourself saying “Me too!” or “So that’s why that happens.” or even just “I understand that totally … I don’t do that, but I see how that could be.” then you get the big part of why I’m here.


ADHD Means Never Being Speechless

Monday, January 5th, 2015
I'll say!

I’ll say!

I don’t know about you, but over the years I’ve had to learn not to open my mouth every time there’s silence. The result is that I’ve had less things to apologize for.

Note that I said less things and not no things. That’s because, even if I do pause before speaking, I don’t always make the right choice about whether or not to say something. But there are times when it helps.

In 55 years of life I’ve managed to maybe reduce the inappropriate things I say by perhaps half.


My 8 Totally Doable ADHD New Year’s Resolutions

Friday, January 2nd, 2015
I make resolutions all the time ...

I make resolutions all the time …

So, I realize that the title of my last post was a little misleading. What was I thinking? “In 2015, I Resolve To …

Did I tell you what my resolutions were in that post? No. Which makes me wonder … why are you reading this one? I lied. You should have higher standards.

No, wait, don’t go away. It was a mistake … the title meant that I resolve not to make resolutions that are bound to fail.
And? …


12 Things That ADHD Is To Me

Monday, December 15th, 2014
Thinking thoughts of ADHD

Thinking thoughts of ADHD

Just what is ADHD? I know, there’s a clinical definition. But writing it out here would likely take up the whole post.

There’s examples of development shortfalls and effects that must persist, and situations that produce certain overwhelming feelings and … well, it does go on.

But maybe there’s a shorter way to say it. Or maybe it isn’t shorter, but more understandable. Maybe it would help if I gave some examples of what ADHD is.


I Can’t Seem To Hold Back Time With ADHD

Wednesday, December 10th, 2014
It won't slow down ....

It won’t slow down ….

I whistle, in the dark.

I consciously look for the light places. I search for the good. I concentrate on the things I love.

And for the most part, I’m a positive person.

I make known my happy and cheerful thoughts and those thoughts come back to me from every corner of my world, magnified and multiplied by those who appreciate hearing good news in their own worlds.


What Things Exacerbate ADHD?

Wednesday, November 19th, 2014
CanADHDian

CanADHDian

I’ve seen my ADHD symptoms fluctuate. And I’ve seen other’s symptoms fluctuate as well.
The first thing that happened to me when I was diagnosed was my thinking “Ah, that explains … everything.”

My follow up thoughts seemed to orbit around the idea that I should be able to compensate for my symptoms, now that I knew what they were, how they manifested and to what extent they influenced day to day life.


Computer Programming And ADHD

Monday, November 17th, 2014
Hyper-focus program

Hyper-focus program

Many of us with ADHD have a little problem with addiction. Mine manifests in different ways.

The worst addiction in my life is a 40 year struggle with alcohol. I’m happy to report that the last nearly 31 years of this struggle have been without the physical influence of the stuff. That’s right, I’ll have been sober for 31 years in early December.

But I’ve had other bouts with being unable to surface from immersion in substances and behaviours. Caffeine is a big one for me. I have gone to great lengths to educate myself about the stuff, because frankly, I believe that an addiction will always need to be a part of my life.


Accomplishments And ADHD

Wednesday, November 12th, 2014
Success is on the rise!

Success is on the rise!

Every time I do something, it’s an accomplishment.

Every day is filled with accomplishments from one end to the other. But there are things I set out to do that I don’t accomplish in a day.

Seems like an oxymoron, doesn’t it? It seems like one of those dichotomies of which I sometimes speak. And I guess, to some extent, it is.


We Are The People With ADHD

Monday, November 10th, 2014
And we're not leaving ...

And we’re not leaving …

So I thought I’d take a moment to explain what that means.

We are the ones who can’t find our keys because we left them in the door, or in the car, or in the suit that was taken to the cleaners.

We are the ones who go to the store for milk, just milk, and come back with two to three bags of groceries including a really great new coffee blend that you just have to try, but … sorry, we have no milk.

We are the ones who might well have too many cats because we can’t say no, even if we think about the consequences, which we won’t.


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