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What ADHD Wants For Christmas

Monday, December 22nd, 2014
What would your wish be?

What would your wish be?

All year long I blog about what I learn about ADHD, what I think about ADHD, and what I think isn’t true about ADHD. I also add posts about how I feel people with ADHD should work hard to feel good about themselves.

But I realize that I don’t often write about the thoughts of others with ADHD.

So I went to one of my online support groups and I asked a seasonal question.


The ADHD Gift I Gave Myself

Friday, December 19th, 2014
The audience, from where I stood

The audience, from where I stood

Last night I sang. I am a member of a choir of over 100 voices, and last night I sang. We did a show, in an old church that’s been turned into a community centre. We did it last night, and I sang.

I didn’t sing a solo part, I was part of the mid range group. In a more formal choir it would likely be referred to as the tenors.

We didn’t do seasonal music, it was more contemporary. It was meant to be cheerful, uplifting, celebratory, but not in celebration of anything formal.


ADHD, It’s A Wonderful Life

Wednesday, December 17th, 2014
You say ADHD is wonderful?

You say ADHD is wonderful?

It’s that time of year again. Wild spending on food and decorations and gifts for people to help celebrate whatever it is you and your family celebrate.

And traditions, oh the traditions. Dishes to prepare, songs to be sung, visits to share, stockings to be hung … (I’ll try not to slip into rhyme here, but it isn’t easy, darned holiday excitement).

And the days off are exciting too. And even on the days we don’t have off, there is so much more to do.

There are office and school parties to attend. Concerts, both professional and amateur are gotten up at this time of year. Some of them are benefits, so you feel doubly obliged to attend.


12 Things That ADHD Is To Me

Monday, December 15th, 2014
Thinking thoughts of ADHD

Thinking thoughts of ADHD

Just what is ADHD? I know, there’s a clinical definition. But writing it out here would likely take up the whole post.

There’s examples of development shortfalls and effects that must persist, and situations that produce certain overwhelming feelings and … well, it does go on.

But maybe there’s a shorter way to say it. Or maybe it isn’t shorter, but more understandable. Maybe it would help if I gave some examples of what ADHD is.


All My ADHD Needs Is A List And An Audience

Friday, December 12th, 2014
"All right, listen up people .... "

“All right, listen up people …. “

I can maintain my focus. I don’t need much to maintain my focus. All I need is a list and an audience.
The night before last I had a job to do. I was the Master of Ceremonies for a concert. I welcomed everyone to the show, made some announcements, and introduced the opening act.

Then I made a few more announcements, and introduced the headliner. All the while I moved people on and off stage, kept track of time, announced the intermission, announced the end of intermission.


I Can’t Seem To Hold Back Time With ADHD

Wednesday, December 10th, 2014
It won't slow down ....

It won’t slow down ….

I whistle, in the dark.

I consciously look for the light places. I search for the good. I concentrate on the things I love.

And for the most part, I’m a positive person.

I make known my happy and cheerful thoughts and those thoughts come back to me from every corner of my world, magnified and multiplied by those who appreciate hearing good news in their own worlds.


ADHD: Plays Well With ̶O̶t̶h̶e̶r̶s̶ Fire

Monday, December 8th, 2014
I did not play with this ... much

I did not play with this … much

Well, “plays with fire” is more like it.

The truth is we like excitement. We like it a lot. We find the increase in certain chemicals, ones that our bodies produce when we’re excited, to be quite stimulating.

And when you get to the bottom of the ledger, stimulation is what we seek. Chemical stimulation makes our worlds go ’round. If the last moment wasn’t stimulating, we start looking elsewhere for that chemical rush.


Give Me A Gift For The ADHD Holidays

Friday, December 5th, 2014
Is it bigger than a bread box?

Is it bigger than a bread box?

There was a time when I thought I was normal.
Okay, you can stop laughing now. What I meant was I thought I was well within the normal spectrum and that, while unique and quirky, I was still just your everyday, average guy.

You’re laughing again, I’ll wait ’til you finish …. done? Good.

Then everything changed and I realized I’d never be within that so called “normal spectrum.”


Can ADHD Hold You Back From Success?

Wednesday, December 3rd, 2014
Success is a state of mind ... and maybe a good pay check

… and maybe a good pay check

Well duh!!! In order to have a valid diagnosis your symptoms have to have had a negative impact on your life. That’s one of the rules of the diagnosis. How is that not going to hold you back from success?

But then again, how does ADHD hold you back from success?

And aren’t there some people with ADHD who are successful? Famous ones, in fact?


I’m Not Apologizing For My ADHD

Monday, December 1st, 2014
Apology not accepted ... and not offered!

… and not offered!

I listen to people talking about ADHD on a daily basis. I hear them describe the quirks that they live with and the symptoms that invade their lives. I hear them respond to the same descriptions from others.

And it’s amazing to see people come out of their shells. It’s so heart warming to hear them say things like “I thought that was just me, I never realized that other people could be/feel/think that way too.”


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